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COVER STORY
What is life like as a priest? What do these men think and feel about their lives? FAITH talked to two long-time pastors and Bishop Mengeling about being priests - their biggest joys, sorrows, favorite moments and even meals.
Life Under Holy Orders
By Duane Ramsey
Feature
Many parents encourage their sons to pursue vocations other than priesthood these days. Not the MacDonalds. They have two priest sons. What did they do or not do to encourage and support their sons?
Parenting Priests
By Patricia Majher
Feature
Why would a doctor and a lawyer give up their professions to become priests? In the midst of one of the largest scandals to face the priesthood, James Conlon and Peeter Clark did just that. Meet our two new priests.
Ordination 2002
By Christina Kirsh
Web Exclusive
How Has the Priesthood Changed?
Priests Then and Now
By Fr. Charles Irvin
plus:
Fr. Charlie Irvin: Spiritual Guide to the Diocese's Priests
By Patricia Majher

My Life as a Priest

Interviews by Duane Ramsey
Photography by James Luning

Looking back on my life, God has blessed me wherever I have been. I didn't realize when I was younger that God loves me more than myself. Having grown up on a farm I had three options in life: become a farmer and raise a family, become a teacher or a priest. I didn't want to be a farmer, I wanted to become a priest or teach. I was fortunate to do both in one calling. Being a priest is God's calling for me and I'm happy to fulfill that calling. I have experienced God's graces and am very satisfied in what I've done in life. The best thing my parents did was to give me the freedom to live my own life and didn't tell me how to live it. I am happiest when I'm saying Mass. Celebrating the sacraments is what I like most about being a priest. I love baptisms, weddings and celebrating the liturgy of Mass. The traditions of the Church are the best part of being Catholic. Sometimes the law comes before the people, just like in civil affairs. That's the frustrating part of being Catholic. I felt the closest to God when I was in a coma. It was a very peaceful state for me. I have felt the presence of God least in the state of sin. There are good choices and evil choices. God has given those choices to everybody. The choice you make is the key. The chance to stand and say 'I love God' is better than all the evil choices one could make. I have been angry about evil things people do, but I don't think I've ever been angry with God. Knowing that God's calling never quits is what gives me hope. God loves me so much that He calls me every day. Am I doing God's will for the Church and not for me? I ask myself that question every day. The most interesting thing about people is that nobody's alike because God created them all differently. You can't put people in categories or classify them. Touching people's lives by helping them has been my biggest joy as a priest. I hope that people would thank God for meeting me. The failure to reach some people and not being able to help them is the biggest disappointment. The greatest adversity I've had to deal with is living with diabetes for 33 years. Now, I have a rare blood disease and been given only one to three years to live but I've always had a spiritual direction since my ordination. After losing someone important, I wish I could have helped him more. I lost a good friend and classmate who retired, bought a condo in Florida and soon committed suicide. I knew he had a problem but didn't know how serious it was. When I was a chaplain at a hospital many years ago, I met a couple, who had been married for 54 years. They were in the hospital together near the end of their lives but the way they looked at each other was the finest love I've ever seen. I have seen more (true) justice in people coming back to the Church when they are sick or dying. I've always tried to help people but I don't know all the answers. I've always believed the other person is very important. If somebody mistreats you, I feel sorry for that person. When it comes to imitating Jesus, I would like to have His ability to deal with people wherever they're at. I also admire children's ability to have complete trust in other people. St. Francis of Assisi has been my model or saint that inspires me most. I think he was a person who could walk anywhere and feel at home with animals or people of all kinds. I have seen true wisdom in other clergyman. I've worked with many priests in many parishes and gained wisdom watching how God's grace works through them. My favorite meal is pasta. I love to cook but can't chew or swallow so I don't get to enjoy food any more. Pleasure used to be playing tennis, but right now, just visiting people. One question I would like God to answer is, 'How could I love people more?' I hope that I would be called 'a good friend of God' when I reach heaven.

Fr. Ray Rademacher of Holy Trinity Parish in Fowler (1935-2002)
Ordained in 1962 before the Second Vatican Council, Fr. Rademacher served as a parish priest and pastor for 40 years. He served as pastor of St. Casimir Parish in Lansing and St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Ann Arbor. He was an associate at the parishes of St. Joseph in Owosso, St. Thomas Aquinas in East Lansing, St. Augustine in Kalamazoo, and others. During the last six years of his life, he served as pastor at Holy Trinity Parish in Fowler. Even during the last painful months of his life, Fr. Ray continued to serve his people - like agreeing to do this article and visiting the sick even when his health was sometimes worse than those he was visiting.

The call of God was the first thing to come to mind looking back on my life. So many people are God's mouthpieces through the Church. A lot of priests and lay people helped to foster the vocation in me to become a priest. After considering different professions that involved helping people, such as social worker and teacher, I realized I could do all those things by serving God and people as a priest. It was never something that was expected in the family but they encouraged and supported my decision. The best thing my parents did was that they loved each other and us, gave us all we needed but not all we wanted. Serving good people who are interested in living the faith has kept me doing what I do as a priest. The best part of being Catholic and a priest (I can't separate the two) is celebrating the sacraments with people at key moments in their lives. There are some I have baptized, given first confession and holy Communion, married them and given them last rites. Pleasure is leading other people to Christ. The negative part of being Catholic is a misunderstanding many people have about the Church. Some people are told what we believe as Catholics by others who are not even connected with the Church. There are many social injustices within the Church. It has made strides towards true justice with some of the bigger issues, such as gaining more equality for African-Americans and migrant workers. I felt the presence of God most one Sunday morning celebrating Mass at St. Casimir in Lansing. In the middle of the homily, I felt a special awareness and attentiveness. The whole liturgy seemed to have an extraordinary reverence on everyone's part. That moment had to be acknowledged because I realized that we had prayed together as one prayer when God visited that house. When I haven't felt His presence, I have wondered, 'Where are you God?' I simply looked around and found the answer. I may have been angry with God once. It was a toss up between being angry with the bishop or God. A question I ask myself every day is 'Whose will is going to win out today, Lord? I know it should be Yours but ... ' Sometimes when you lose something or someone important to you, you aren't able to deal with it at that time. My father died when I was 11, but I didn't have a sense of it until an uncle, who was a mentor to me, died when I was 21. Only then was I able to grieve my father's death. When dealing with adversity, you can be surprised by things when you need to move quickly in a mental framework before you act. An issue may be the adversary. I always ask: How will God best be served? If someone mistreats me, I may momentarily and internally blow up, but I try to say, 'Why waste good energy on it?' My biggest joy as a priest was having the unexpected privilege to be part of a parish building a new church at St. Jude in DeWitt. It was also a disappointment not to share more time in the new facility but I was blessed to have a complete cycle of the liturgical seasons there. The most interesting thing about people is that even though we're all individuals, people are alike in many ways. I've always believed in the goodness of people. I've never thought much about what people might say after meeting me. I hope it would be that I could make a difference in their lives. I have received true love from so many of the friendships I've shared with priests and parishioners. I've kept in contact with many of them despite the separation. When it comes to seeing true wisdom, some of the priest mentors, especially pastors in my parish assignments, each have shown human insight into different things. What I would most want to imitate about Jesus is His compassion and understanding of people. About imitating children, I would want to have their openness and eagerness to learn new things. The one thing I want people to know about Jesus is the gift of His life He offered for us as forgiveness of our sins. St. Joseph is my favorite saint. He worked quietly providing for Jesus and Mary yet never sought the spotlight. I've often said, 'there's a question I'd like to ask God' but I can't think of any now. On the presumption that I get to heaven, I hope God would say 'welcome home.' I am happiest when I hear the first reconciliation of adults becoming Catholic. My favorite meal is prime rib, twice-baked potatoes, peas with pearl onions, Greek salad with feta cheese, roll and butter, and some sinful dessert.

Fr. Bernie Reilly of St. Mary Star of the Sea Parish in Jackson
Fr. Reilly was ordained April 28, 1973, at St.Mary Cathedral. He has been involved with the Emmaus support group for priests for about 20 years. Fr. Reilly served as an associate at three parishes including St. Luke in Flint, St. Casimir in Lansing, and St. John the Evangelist in Fenton. He has served as pastor of St. Leo the Great and St. Luke in Flint, St. Jude in DeWitt and, currently, St. Mary Star of the Sea.

God's calling manifested itself in me over a period of time. A number of people influenced me at the impressionable time of life (in answering the call). The parish priest was my role model for the priesthood. A Franciscan sister, who was a teacher in Catholic school for seventh and eighth grade, actively encouraged my vocation to the priesthood. It's ironic that I remained in contact with both over the years and was with them at their deaths. I was leaning toward it but then went to public high school and got distracted. Gradually, the seeds that were sown began to grow and the pieces of the puzzle started to come together for me. I was baptized and grew up Lutheran until becoming Catholic at age 10 with my mother. Looking back on my life and things that come to mind, I recall the kids in our neighborhood in Hammond, Ind., where I grew up. I still remember a boy named Duane who died of leukemia at age 11 and we just couldn't understand it. The best thing my parents did for me was to give me the opportunity to accept responsibility for my actions and decisions. In other words, instill accountability. One of my biggest joys was my father becoming Catholic shortly before my ordination. I take joy in many things. Another joy was starting a new parish, the Nativity of Our Savior in Portage, building a new church, school, and rectory. I haven't had any big disappointments in life. My fidelity to the calling of the Lord has kept me doing what I do. My heart is in it and God's grace makes it all possible. I've always believed that I can rely on God's grace. I feel God's presence always, but there have been extraordinary times when I've felt it more, such as at my ordination, giving first Communion to children, celebrating Mass in the Holy Land, and saying Mass on Holy Thursday for all priests. I've felt God's presence the least in times when I've been indifferent or neglectful of prayer. I don't think being angry with God is using the right words. We may become frustrated when certain things happen but we shouldn't be angry with God. I enjoy celebrating the sacraments in the ministry of faith most about being a priest. There's a big difference being a priest responsible for one parish and its people and being the bishop responsible for many parishes and a quarter of a million people. Seeing the power of God at work in everyone gives me great hope. I've learned that the vast majority of people are good, open and have goodwill toward others. I've seen true love all my life in so many people. Love has no limits. It's a profound reality when a person loves so much they can give, forgive and overlook so much. I've seen true justice a lot in life. A just man or woman is faithful to what they chose in life whether it's the priesthood, marriage, teaching or any other vocation. Wisdom is common sense and the virtue of prudence that helps us to see the whole picture and make the right decision. With the divine wisdom of Jesus, it all connects. Only God truly sees the whole picture. When God seems far away, who moved? We move away from God. Often times, I think God is the busiest when we have to learn our comeuppance. The death of my parents and loss of that generation of my family was difficult for me. In situations where you lose someone important to you, you should turn to the Lord, accept the new reality of life, and adjust your life to that reality. When dealing with an adversary, I try to let people talk, say their piece, and usually suggest that they sleep on it before dealing with the problem. I admire so many saints, but St. Joseph is probably my favorite. He did God's will without question, serving as the foster father of Jesus and husband of Mary. I would most want to imitate Christ's total gift of love to us and His total surrender to death that allows us to become members of His family. Another thing everyone should know about Jesus is that His love is unlimited and therein lies our happiness. Two questions I would like to ask God - one scientific and another scriptural. Scientifically: Why the immensity of the universe? Scripturally: What happened to all 120 people in the room at the time of Pentecost? When I see God in heaven, I hope He would say what Christ said to the good thief who asked Him to 'remember me when you come into your kingdom.' Jesus replied, 'On this day, you will be with me in paradise.' Breakfast is my favorite meal. I am happiest when I'm preaching. I enjoy doing that. I don't know a lot of things, but I trust God to know what I need to do His will.

Bishop Carl F. Mengeling
Bishop Mengeling was ordained May 25, 1957, at Holy Angels Church in the first ordination class of the newly formed Diocese of Gary in northwest Indiana. He served as associate pastor of St. Mark Parish, Gary and then studied at the Alphonsianum University in Rome, earning a Doctorate in Sacred Theology. He returned to teach at Bishop Noll High School in Hammond, St. Joseph Calumet College in East Chicago, IN, and St. Procopius Seminary, Lisle, IL. He served as pastor of All Saints Parish in Hammond, Holy Name Parish in Cedar Lake, Nativity of Our Savior Parish, Portage, IN and St. Thomas More Parish in Munster, IN until his ordination as bishop of Lansing on January 25, 1996.

Parenting Priests
By Patricia Majher | Photos by Christine Jones

Larry and Rose Ann MacDonald have 2 Priest Sons -
What did they do or not do?

"We simply encouraged our children to keep God in their hearts and follow their dreams."

Larry and Rose Ann are the proud parents of six children, two of whom are ordained priests. Their son Tim is a diocesan priest, while Adam took up the missionary life. Both young men credit their parents with providing the foundation they needed to support their commitment to God. "I saw in my parents the true meaning of an active faith," says Adam. "They lived their vocation as parents well and, by their example, prepared us to be 'spiritual parents' to our parishioners," affirmed Tim.

Fittingly, Larry and Rose Ann were drawn to each other as teens by a special event benefitting seminarians. At the time, Rose Ann taught catechism at a mission school in her home diocese of Columbus, Ohio, and had founded an organization to support young men studying for the priesthood in India. A friend brought Larry to one of the group's fund-raisers, where Rose Ann caught his eye. When he asked her to dance, she replied with a smile, "You don't know what you're getting yourself into!"

Parents and Encouraging
Vocations to Priesthood:
34% of those who've considered priesthood were encouraged by their parents
25% drop from 1964 to 1974 in parental approval for son pursuing priesthood
31% drop in priests actively encouraging vocations

Attraction grew into love, and love resulted in marriage. In 1964, their first child, Eban, arrived, followed a year later by Kathryn. During the early 1960s, Larry earned a bachelor's and a master's degree in music at Ohio State University. Upon graduation, he was offered a job teaching at Mott Community College in Flint and moved the growing MacDonald clan there.

While Larry pursued his academic career at Mott, Rose Ann had her hands full at home. Sean arrived in 1967, Colin in 1969, Adam in 1971, and Tim three years after that. Still, both parents found time to be active in their parish of St. Michael Catholic Church, participating in its music ministry and teaching religious education classes. As each child grew older, he or she was expected to volunteer at the parish, too. "Both Adam and Tim were altar boys and worked in the parish office, where Fr. Matthew Fedewa took them under his wing," notes Rose Ann.

Besides God's role in calling men to priesthood, today's Top 4 ingredients for a vocation haven't changed since the first studies looked at factors back in the 1930s

  1. Clear signs of support
  2. Strong Catholic identity
  3. Personal encouragement
  4. Personal witness on the part of priests

Rose Ann - who once attended a convent - also set a wonderful example with an active prayer life that included recitation of the Divine Office. "She still prays more than I do," Tim says with a chuckle.

The first MacDonald child to express an interest in the priesthood was their eldest, Eban, who entered a seminary in the 1980s. Though the experience was brief (just a year elapsed before he left to pursue an artistic career), it still had a profound effect on younger brother Adam. "The opportunities I had to visit him," Adam explained, "inspired me to think about the priesthood as my own vocational choice."

Fr. AdamWhen the time came for Adam to take the SATs in high school, he checked a box on the registration form indicating an interest in missionary work. "Adam was such a quiet child, we didn't even know he was considering this," Larry explains. "A short time later, a recruiter for the Society of the Divine Word came to our door, and Adam seemed set on exploring this option."

True to his word, Adam enrolled at the society's college in Epworth, Iowa, in the fall of 1988. He then followed his bachelor's degree with a year of formation at his order's provincial headquarters and four years at Chicago's Catholic Theological Union (CTU). It was CTU that first sent him to the Philippines, where he mastered the local language and helped serve the people of a remote island parish.

A year before Adam graduated from college, his brother Tim entered the University of St. Thomas/St. John Vianney Seminary in Minnesota. Tim admits he was swayed in his decision to prepare for the priesthood by Adam's experience. "I used to go with my parents to drop him off and pick him up (from Iowa) each year, and I could see how the experience was transforming him. I soon realized I wanted that, too."

Fr. TimAfter graduation in 1996, Tim continued his formation with four years of theological study at the Pontifical Gregorian University in Rome. Classes there were taught in Italian, which Tim easily picked up, and he loved being just five minutes from St. Peter's. "I had the opportunity to pray with the Holy Father on several occasions." Tim also took advantage of his time overseas to travel to Calcutta for a summer to work in Mother Teresa's mission.

While the brothers were engaged in their studies out of the country, their home parish of St. Michael was busy affirming their vocation. "The parishioners regularly sent them letters and cards," says Larry, "and took up a special collection that was split between the two boys. Some even traveled to Rome to see Tim become a deacon."

Top reasons parents don't encourage vocations:

  1. Don't want to interfere
  2. Don't want to be blamed if it doesn't work out
  3. Fear that priestly life is in turmoil
  4. Personal problems with Church
  5. Feel priesthood is a futile lifestyle

When the time came for the MacDonald brothers to take their final vows, they discovered that the ceremonies were scheduled just a week apart - Adam's in Illinois and Tim's in Michigan. After consulting with his brother, Adam asked his order if the two could be ordained together on the same day in the same city. His superiors agreed, and the brothers were accepted into the priesthood at Lansing's St. Mary Cathedral June 10, 2000.

Top reasons to encourage vocations:

  1. Rewarding life
  2. Find life meaningful
  3. Faith based
  4. Caring profession

After the ceremony, Adam requested that he be assigned again to his beloved Philippines; he now serves as associate pastor at a parish outside Manila. Tim stayed closer to home, in Lansing, where he balances his work as parochial vicar at St. Gerard Parish with volunteer commitments to the diocese. (Some readers may know him as the host of the local 'Theology on Tap' program or as the emcee at various diocesan events.)

Larry and Rose Ann MacDonald are rightfully proud of Adam and Tim, and will gladly show you a scrapbook they've put together to showcase their sons' formation as priests. But when asked to reflect on their role in Adam and Tim's choice of vocation, they predictably demur. "We simply encouraged our children to keep God in their hearts and follow their dreams," notes Rose Ann, "and all six have become productive members of society."

A Doctor and a Lawyer Become Priests

By Christina Kirsh | Photos by Christine Jones

Why? Why would a successful doctor and lawyer give up lucrative careers - careers that are in many ways the most prestigious and sought after - to become parish priests? Why would they do it given the current scandals in the Church? Meet the diocese's two newest priests and find out how they came to see life differently.

With the challenges facing priests in dioceses around the country for the past several months, there is nothing more encouraging than to see two more faithful men receive the sacrament of holy orders in our own Diocese of Lansing.

But perhaps what is even more encouraging is that although both men had friends and family members affirm them in their vocations, it was due to the positive influence of a faithful priest in both Fr. James Conlon's and Fr. Peter Clark's lives that led each to his ordination at St. Mary Cathedral in Lansing June 8.

Fr. James Conlon

All of Fr. James Conlon's family flew in from Ireland to celebrate his ordination. They went to a family dinner afterwards. He then traveled back to Ireland to baptize a cousin's baby. The first wedding Mass he will perform as a priest will be his younger sister's.

The Diocese of Lansing also did much to welcome and honor Fr. James - and Fr. Clark, too - into its leadership June 8. But when it was all said and done, what Fr. James, 37, looked forward to the most about becoming a priest was being able to preside over the Eucharist.

That and hearing confessions "since I've been such a great recipient of (that sacrament)!" he says laughing. But he recognizes the importance of the clergy to know God, a process that does not end when one becomes a priest.

"The primary agent is the Holy Spirit," he acknowledges. "The Spirit is within you, but you have to cooperate with the Spirit. And not just in formation."

Fresh out of seminary and as a new priest at St. Francis of Assisi in Ann Arbor, Fr. James, a native of Ireland (a trait which shows through his quick wit and laughter), has a unique perspective on the sexual abuse cases by priests around the country during the past year.

"In the past I think a lot of guys didn't follow the Spirit," he says. "They finished discernment when they entered seminary." Discernment and growing in one's faith, however, is a lifelong process, even for a priest.

Fr. James - yes it's 'James,' not 'Jim' or 'Jimmy' (he said the only people who can get away with calling him 'Jim' are his aunt, who is still used to calling him that from his childhood, and Bishop Carl Mengeling) - grew up in a Catholic family in Sligo, Ireland. He and his two brothers and four sisters (Fr. James is the middle child) have all become successful professionals and now are scattered around the world.

He still keeps in touch with all of them and estimated he talks to his parents at least twice a week. "Thank God for Sam's (Club phone) cards," Fr. James says. And, he adds, his family "never turned down a trip anywhere." Indeed, Fr. James has lived in England and Australia. He's traveled before to America and he has been to Turkey and worked in India with Catholic Relief Services.

During his childhood, Fr. had thoughts of the priesthood - he was an altar server, there were always lots of priests around and one of his uncles was a priest serving in Australia. His uncle always had a big influence on him, he recalls. In fact, the chalice he used at his first Mass as a priest was his uncle's.

After high school Fr. James attended National University of Ireland, Galway, to study history and law. Fr. James' older brother, a lawyer and partner in a Dublin law firm, encouraged him to enter law and work as a solicitor in his firm. From there Fr. James worked in London and Sydney as well as in Dublin.

But thoughts of priesthood were always in the back of his mind. In the summer of 1994, a friend invited him to visit America - more specifically, Michigan - where he fell in love with St. John the Evangelist Parish in Fenton. He admired the pastor, Fr. David Harvey, and remembers the friendliness of the people he met.

"It left an indelible mark on me," Fr. James says. Even today, he says he can go back to St. John on holidays and breaks and it feels like his second home.
A lawyer friend in Dublin invited him to join a musical society, and there he met another lawyer who was also a priest. He realized he shared many of the same thoughts and experiences as this lawyer-priest, which encouraged him to consider more seriously the vocation. At age 29, Fr. James decided to enter the seminary for his home diocese in Ireland.

"It was a nightmare," he says.

Fast Facts: Fr. James Conlon

Favorite food: "I love anything Italian, lots of savory and spicy things. Skip the dessert and eat the antipasti!"

Favorite book: "As an attorney I love crime and mystery novels, especially those of P.D. James and David Baldacci." Just before ordination, Father James was reading Murder in Holy Orders, P.D. James' latest novel, "an interesting choice just before ordination!"

Favorite movie: "I do not have a favorite movie of all time but I do like arty movies, like Babette's Feast, Jean de Florette and Le Grand Chemin. I also thought Moulin Rouge was great fun."

Favorite television show: "Law & Order. I even worked it into a homily at seminary once. I could watch it all day and here in the U.S.A. that is possible as it's on about four channels simultaneously."

Favorite place to travel: "Easy - the land down under, Australia. One of the most exciting places I have ever had the pleasure to visit, so much so that I went back five times."

Favorite place to eat: "Over my two years in Chicago I grew to love all those little 'ristoranti' in Little Italy; any one of them is my favorite! There is nothing like an Italian dinner, a glass of good Merlot (preferably Australian) and then an evening at the opera. Sheer bliss!"

Favorite sport: " I am not the sporty type although I will watch it on TV now and again. However, I still have to come to grips with American sports and why a baseball game can last so long or why in American football the players seem to spend more time off the field than on ... Give me a game of rugby or Gaelic football anytime!"

Other hobbies/interests: "When I was a kid I used to collect stamps; even now I still check the right-hand corner of mail to see what kind of stamp is there. (Also) history, especially political history, is an interest of mine. Did you know that the oldest continuous parliament in the world is the Twynald on the Isle of Mann? Or that New Zealand was the first country to give women the vote?"

Fr. James was one of the oldest men there - most were in high school - and he "felt like a fish out of water." He knew he wasn't going to last. After two years, he left.

"It was the best thing I ever did," he says now. He went back to practicing law. But he still had a hunger to learn more theology.

He entered at Dublin's Milltown Institute of Theology and Philosophy where he could begin the degrees necessary to enter the priesthood. The Jesuits, who taught at the institute, wanted him to join their order. But if he were to become a priest, he wanted to work in a parish. After finishing his master of divinity and pontifical degrees, he decided to become a priest.

His options were to enter either the Diocese of Lansing or the diocese where his uncle served in Australia. Although his uncle died in 1985, he had visited there many times since and was welcomed by the priests his uncle knew.

However, "I didn't want to be someone's nephew," he said. "I wanted to be my own person." He contacted Fr. J. Munley who was, at the time, director of formation for the Diocese of Lansing. Since James had his degrees, all he needed to do was go through vocation formation for the Lansing diocese.

He went up to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn., for one year to complete the clinical pastoral ministry course. While at the Mayo Clinic he also completed the screening and application process to become a priest in the Diocese of Lansing. "I'm not sure the apostles would get through it," he says of the thorough process. "You get to know yourself really well." As a priest, one really does see the best and worst of humanity, he adds.

Fr. James heard a lot of confessions while a hospital chaplain, but he was never able to complete the care of patients because he could not yet grant absolution. Not being able to "finish" the sacraments for sick patients left him frustrated but looking forward to the day he would one day be able to fully serve them as a priest.

To finish his process of formation, Fr. James entered Mundelein Seminary in Mundelein, Ill., in September 2000. While there, he got a job at the Archdiocese of Chicago's tribunal office, allowing him to use his skills as a lawyer to help young men and women seeking annulments.

Fr. James was impressed by Mundelein Seminary because, unlike the seminary he attended in Ireland, it "put our experiences to work. Here they are respectful of our backgrounds," he says. "My first seminary wanted me to forget I was a lawyer."

As for whether he will be able to put his legal background to use in the Diocese of Lansing, "I'll put that at the feet of the diocese," says Fr. James. "If they can use me, that's great."

At St. Francis of Assisi in Ann Arbor, Fr. James hopes to enrich the faith formation program that is already in place there.

"For most people, the homily is the only time they get catechesis," he says. "People need to be challenged. They need to know that we're in this for the long haul, that this (faith) is serious."

 

Fr. Peter Clark

When asked if he was excited about becoming a priest, Fr. Peter Clark answered, "'Sobering' is probably a better word." He really did not have much power over the decision, he explains. "I don't get a sense that I chose, but rather that I was chosen."

Before his ordination, Fr. Clark, 54, was a medical doctor, specializing in geriatrics and internal medicine. He saw many sobering situations - similar to the job of a priest, he has seen the best and worst of humanity - which led him to ponder how he could become more involved in the Church.

As a physician, he could describe a patient's illness, discuss treatment options, inform them how their ailment would progress - he could give all the "technical" medical terms - but then his patient would look him in the eye and ask, "Why me?" Answers to those questions, Fr. Clark knew, were spiritual.
Several experiences throughout his life challenged Fr. Clark to discover how he could give back to the Church, which he felt had given him so much. But until almost the time he entered the seminary, he had really never considered the priesthood as an option.

Fr. Clark, a native of Rochester, N.Y., grew up Catholic but attended public schools. His family members were never "insiders" to the church, but that he and his siblings - Fr. Clark is the youngest of five - always had good examples of a down-to-earth faith from their parents.

"I was drawn to the gospels, even as a child," Fr. Clark says, also remembering several positive experiences with the sacrament of reconciliation. Yet he didn't sense a call to the priesthood.

Even though he regularly attended Mass during his high school years, he wasn't very involved in Church activities. His freshman year at Wittenberg University in Springfield, Ohio, he realized he had been "coasting" in his faith his whole life. It was the 1960s and a lot was going on in the world - the sexual revolution, the civil rights movement, the Vietnam War. "It was important to have opinions about everything," Fr. Clark recalls.

He began to realize that Christianity was all-encompassing and involved one's entire life. He asked himself, "Who am I? Who do I need to be?" At first he found support to his answers to those questions from Protestant evangelicals and Anabaptists on campus. Eventually he was led to re-start the Catholic Newman Club. A visiting priest once asked him about entering the seminary, but the thought never stuck.

Although he started college as a history major, Fr. Clark decided he wanted to study medicine. Unfortunately, when he switched majors he took the hardest pre-med courses first, the results of which would later hinder his ability to get into medical school.

"I never thought of medicine as the end-all; I never thought 'this is it.' It was just the next step," he explains. As with all his major life decisions, Fr. Clark fasted and prayed about his decision to become a doctor. He still felt led to study medicine, so after his graduation from Wittenberg with a general science/education degree, he attended the University of Rochester for further pre-med classes.

During the summer after his senior year he decided to take part in an integrated Christian community in southern Georgia where he did farm work, volunteer work and built houses for poor people in the area. A man named Millard Fuller was one of the community's leaders, the same man who eventually founded Habitat for Humanity. This experience opened Fr. Clark's eyes to the idea of involvement in a Christian community.

Back in Rochester, Fr. Clark took classes to get into medical school, but soon realized his chances were slim. Encouraged by the success of a classmate in Barcelona, Spain, he looked into studying medicine abroad.

"Basically, I sold everything I had and bought a one-way ticket to Europe, the cheapest ticket I could find," he said. He spent the summer in Barcelona trying to get into medical school. During that time he read Scripture and prayed, but attended Mass infrequently.

Finally he was accepted into a medical school in Belgium. He learned to live on very little and found ways to make money in every way he could. He played the banjo as a street musician; other times he would play in cafes and pass a hat around for donations.

It was while he lived in Brussels, Belgium, that Fr. Clark came across a small Catholic charismatic prayer group. "As a result of that, I was reintegrated into the Catholic Church," he says. "I was going to Mass again and involved in the sacraments."

A particular stream of the charismatic renewal, Word of God community, (which described itself as "a charismatic ecumenical covenant community devoted to the renewal of the Christian churches in the power of the Holy Spirit") interested him, so when he finished medical school he applied to hospitals for his residency in cities where there were charismatic covenant communities. He was accepted at St. Joseph Mercy Hospital in Ann Arbor. He became part of the Word of God community there in 1980.

When he finished his residency, he had to decide what to do. He fasted and prayed, and chose to remain in the area and open a practice in Milan, south of Ann Arbor. He was also an attending physician on the staff of St. Joseph Mercy and at Saline Community Hospital in Saline, Mich.

Throughout the 1980s, his practiced flourished, and he enjoyed the time he could spend with patients and the follow-up he could do with them in the hospitals. "It's very satisfying to see patients do well," he said.

But soon the politics and economics of medicine changed. As did many doctors, Fr. Clark became frustrated at policies that hindered the doctor-patient relationship, such as HMOs and new Medicare laws. "I felt I had less control over care, but more responsibilities," he said.

Fast Facts: Fr. Peter Clark

Favorite type of food: Garlic/shrimp dishes

Favorite sport: To play, softball; to watch, college football

Favorite movie: A Man for All Seasons

Favorite book: The Count of Monte Cristo

Favorite TV show: Law & Order

Favorite place to travel: The Adirondack Mountains in upstate New York

Favorite place to eat: The Panda House on Maple Road in Ann Arbor

Other hobbies/interests: Collecting antique postcards, bluegrass music. Fr. Clark is the owner of Old Picture Postcard Collections in Ann Arbor, a retail business he opened 10 years ago.

It was around that time Fr. Clark became involved in the pro-life movement. He joined Operation Rescue and participated in "rescues" from Los Angeles to Washington, D.C., and New York, risking arrests at abortion clinics in the effort to allow women time to reconsider their choice to abort their child. Participants had to agree to be non-violent and keep his or her mouth shut no matter what.

"It'd be unpredictable; you really had to trust God," he said. "You're surrendering your life in a real way to situations you had no control over."
Fr. Clark remembered a time at a rescue in Ypsilanti when he was among the first rescuers to be carried off and placed in a bus by police. He thought, "How can I convince this abortionist to change his career?" As a fellow doctor, he asked himself, would he be willing to change his career? "I couldn't ask anything I wouldn't do," he says.

As a result of his experience, he arranged to have a friend take over his practice for 10 weeks in 1991 so he could decide whether to be involved in the pro-life movement full time. Again, he fasted and prayed.

"In the end, I had a clear notion God was telling me there's more basic things that need to happen (with me) internally." So he went back to his practice.
Also at that time, for personal and ideological reasons, Fr. Clark decided to leave the Word of God community. This decision led him to go back to what had become his home parish, St. Francis of Assisi in Ann Arbor. There, he "got a re-appreciation of grace through the sacraments of the Church."

Fr. Charlie Irvin was pastor there and through his example, Fr. Clark was able to see God working in the routine life of the parish. "I had experienced so much love from the Church, I wanted to love back," he said. From 1993 to 1994 Fr. Peter put his practice in order and quietly sold it in the spring of 1994.

He continued to work part-time at a home health agency, but now Fr. Clark had the time to go to Mass regularly, pray the rosary, do works of mercy, become involved in the parish and "hear God," he says. Still, however, at that time, "priesthood was not on the agenda."

For three years Fr. Clark met with Fr. Charlie. Still wondering how he could best give back to the Church, Fr. Charlie challenged him in his faith. He also urged him to talk to the Diocese of Lansing's director of formation, Father J. Munley. One time, Fr. Munley started asking him a lot of questions about priesthood. "I was surprised at my answers," Father Clark said. "I ended up defending the vocation!"

Fr. Clark had never married - he had been close, but never tied the knot - so he decided to visit a seminary. In fall 1997, he entered Mundelein Seminary in Mundelein, Ill., to become a priest for the Diocese of Lansing.

Some of the best examples of vocations came from his married friends, he said. He would see wives lay down their lives in service to their children or husbands sacrifice time to be supportive of their wives and kids. "It (priesthood) is a spousal relationship," he said. "As a priest I will be laying down my life for my parish."

Priests Then and Now

By Fr. Charles Irvin



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Before the 1960s, life was different for priests. Some were revered, some were loved, some were feared, all where held in awe. A priest was like a doctor, one we could go to when we were in any kind of trouble, be it financial, spiritual, legal or of any nature whatsoever. Father had all of the answers; Father knew best. He was the paterfamilias, the one who could make things happen when something needed to be done. He was doctor, judge and social worker. And he was feudal lord of his parish domain with all its subjects.

We are not that far removed from the days when Catholics were seen to be immigrants, foreigners with strange French, and German, Italian, Irish, Polish and Eastern European names. Not many had English or Spanish family names. They were seen as aliens in an Anglophile country. But being generally well educated, the parish priest was able to mediate between his lower class parishioners and the upper crust of the American legal, educational and social institutions. He stood as newly emancipated among other civic leaders.

World War II changed all of that. Post-war Catholics lived in a new status. They were mainstreamed into our general American cultural and societal institutions. Their brave and heroic deeds during World War II, along with the fact that the G.I. Bill opened the door to higher education for millions of Catholic families. This resulted in a Catholic arrival at the center of American culture. Senator Joseph McCarthy launched a crusade against communism designed to show that Catholics were loyal Americans, even more loyal than Ivy League educated WASPS. Catholics in great numbers were police officers, firemen, lawyers and politicians. Their American loyalty was second to none.

It was good news - and it was bad news, the bad news being that their priests were no longer seen as the father-providers they once were. With well-educated and affluent parishioners, people who were now quite middle class, priests were on pedestals that were no longer as high as once before.

Clericalism might be described as that status in which the priest lived within the mysterious confines of "the rectory". He was invariably clothed in a black suit and wore a Roman collar. He used Latin to communicate with his superiors and with God. The aura of the supernatural surrounded him - he could do no wrong and make no mistakes. The pastor ran the parish without any committees, councils, or other bodies of lay folk who had a meaningful voice in decisions to be made, particularly serious decisions of great consequence. He was accountable only to his bishop.

And then came the 1960s, a decade during which the Catholic Church and Western Civilization were interactively re-formed. Within the Church we saw shifts in several key areas. The ancient role of the baptized and confirmed laity was reestablished. The model of the Church as it was constituted in its first centuries of existence was re-introduced. This resulted in challenging the clergy's relational skills with lay people. Collaborative ministries were introduced along with diocesan and parish councils. There followed the development of careers in which non-ordained worked along side of priests in the Church's organizational structures. The role of women in the Church likewise emerged, along with a decline in narrow parochialism. To say the least, the parish pastor's preeminent position was challenged.

The Church's self-definition changed from that of seeing itself as a "Perfect Society" to seeing itself as a "Pilgrim People." Ecumenism followed with its crucial question: "Is God at work in non-Catholic Christian churches and in non-Christian religions as well?" Priests were forced to struggle with affirming the Spirit in other Christian denominations without at the same time denying the legitimacy of Catholic beliefs. Was Christ's redemptive crucifixion and resurrection necessary for the salvation of the human race or was it simply a nice thing He did for us?

We cannot fail to note that the Fathers of Vatican II began their re-forming council by first addressing changes needed in the liturgy. Immediately prior to Vatican II the officials in the Roman Curia had prepared an agenda for John XXIII's (as they saw it) council. When the bishops of the entire world began the work of the council, they immediately jettisoned the agenda that the curia handed them and began their work with renewing the liturgy. This astonished the observers and experts. Shouldn't the Council Fathers, they asked, begin with the structures of the Church? The Holy Spirit thought otherwise. He inspired the Fathers to re-assert the truth that " ... the Liturgy is the summit toward which the activity of the Church is directed; at the same time it is the fountain from which all her power flows." (Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy, chap. 1, para. 10). Nothing touched the life of the priest more than how he celebrated Mass and the other rites of the Church's Sacred Liturgy. And nothing touched the heart of the Church more than how she celebrated the Eucharist.

Some feel as if the Second Vatican Council pulled the rug out from under priests. But while it may superficially appear that way to a few, a deeper examination reveals a huge shift not simply in the Church but in our entire Western culture as well.

To properly understand the Second Vatican Council one must view it as a continuation of the First Vatican Council, the latter focusing upon the onset of secularism and its attendant movements that sought to divorce people from God's revelation and Christ's presence to us through His Mystical Body. Vatican I dealt with the infallibility of the Church standing triumphant among all of the developing "ism's" that sought to possess and control human beings. Communism, fascism, capitalism, secularism, consumerism and individualism all had their origins and development in the nineteenth century. Vatican I was the Church's magisterial response to them all. But its triumphalism removed it from the central theme of Christ the Suffering Servant, a theme to which Vatican II returned the Church. Jesus as the Friend and Consoler of suffering people was the vision of Pope John XXIII and the reason why he called for a council to take up where Vatican Council I had stopped. We must remember that Vatican I was never officially closed. It simply ceased to meet because all of the assembled bishops had to get out of Rome due to the invading soldiers of the Italian Risorgimento led by Giuseppe Garibaldi. The Church saw herself as "under attack" from any number of political, philosophical, theological and military quarters. Out of felt necessity it adopted a fortress mentality, one that lasted until Pope John XXIII and the 1960s.

The 60s brought with them the onset of the Vietnam War (undeclared), the death of Pope John XXIII, the assassinations of President John F. Kennedy, his brother Bobby, and the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. In May of 1961 John XXIII's Mater et Magistra was published. It met with immediate dissent from the right when the noted conservative William F. Buckley Jr. wrote his widely read article in America magazine "Mater, Si; Magistra, No." Seven years later Humane Vitae was published (July of 1968) and met with dissent from the left, along with a broad section of centrists who weren't really liberals in any other sense even though a few commentators accused them of being so.

The Soviets had put Sputnik into space in the latter part of the 50s. It was in the 60s that American scientific and technological skills were thrown into high gear. We moved at an accelerating rate into the Age of Technology. The operating dogma was "if it can be done, it will be done", an imperative that still propels us as we move into man's ability to control life (both at its inception and its termination), clone human beings, and even set the genetic codes for the kind of human beings we wish to manufacture.

All of this resulted in a massive reconstitution of Western civilization's culture. Its legal, moral, educational, social and governmental structures were gradually disassembled. The legitimacies of the government, the Church, the university and even the institution of marriage itself were questioned. As a result hyper-individualism emerged. As we lost control over our institutional structures people began to feel that they had lost control over their lives. People felt like they were victims. Various choreographs of victimhood emerged. If you could establish the claim that you were a victim you could claim some entitlements from the institutions that were supposed to support you. A small minority could gain leverage over a vast majority.

And the priest? Instead of being a big piece in a small jigsaw puzzle he found himself after the 60s to now be a small piece in a huge jigsaw puzzle. His role was now that of being a community organizer, a servant of oppressed victims and those in need, a mediator between God and those technological humans who now thought they were gods and goddesses in sole charge of their universe. Stardom was not his; stardom was now in the hands of those who fashioned idols and media meteors. He certainly wasn't portrayed in movies and in television shows as one whose life was to be admired. Mothers and fathers no longer suggested to their sons that they might aspire to be priests.

Onto this apocalyptic stage God sent Pope John Paul II with his role of insisting upon the sacred value being human. His incessant message: "Fear not; have courage. Each and every human life presents us with the Presence of God."

That is the message he gives to priests in our times. It is John Paul II's revelation of what it means to be a priest. It is the priests' mission and purpose in this new millennium. The priest is to affirm, support and build up each and every human life God sends to him to care for with God's care. Who else can do that? Only with Christ's ordination can any mortal man do that. The priest's specialty is his holiness in relinquishing everything - family, fame and fortune - so that he can bring us the One who gave up His life for each and every one of us.

Where does this leave us today? Perhaps we now find ourselves in the status of the first Christian priests. Perhaps God has taken us back to our beginnings. Like the first apostles and priests, we are I think being called to choose to leave everything and give everything in our humanity over to God to be disposed as He wishes. Poverty, chastity and obedience are, after all, ways of living in which we have nothing to rely upon except God's provident love. The glamour of this world's power, glitter, admiration and esteem are not worthy of God. They offer Him nothing. Only a priest's heart that has nothing but His love in it is worthy of Him.

Fr. Charlie Irvin
Spiritual Guide to the Diocese's Priests

By Patricia Majher

Mentor. Counselor. Teacher. Guide. Whatever word you use to describe him, Fr. Charlie Irvin has had a major impact on the lives of nearly 20 young men considering the priesthood.

A soft-spoken, faith-filled man with 35 years of pastoral experience, Fr. Charlie may be the diocese's most successful 'recruiter' to his vocation - not because he actively seeks out likely candidates, but because they feel comfortable coming to him, talking to him, and observing him firsthand.

"He's always been available to anyone who crossed his threshold," says Fr. Dennis Glasgow, SJ, an early 'recruit.'

Fr. Charlie came to the priesthood later in life than most of his contemporaries. A native of Ann Arbor, he attended church at the student parish with his father, a University of Michigan business professor, and his mother, an accomplished artist. Following in his father's footsteps, he studied business at U of M and, later, earned a law degree there. A job offer at a big Chicago bank launched him on a career as an estate planner, and he took an apartment in the exciting nightclub district.

But a broken relationship and the death of his father disturbed this promising picture and caused him to rethink his priorities. Several years of self-reflection followed, capped off by a powerful weekend retreat he attended almost on a whim: "By the time Sunday rolled around, though, I knew I had to enroll in a seminary."

Soon after, Fr. Charlie quit his high-paying, high-profile job in the big city and gave himself over to God. "My friends threw me a going-away party at a bar called 'Crossroads.' I figured that had to be a sign," he says with a laugh.

At the age of 27, he entered Sacred Heart Seminary in Detroit and was quickly caught up in the cataclysmic changes inspired by the Second Vatican Council. "It was a marvelous time to be in the seminary, right in the thick of things," he enthused. "The old textbooks were being thrown out and replaced by teachings so new they were still in pamphlet form."

Following ordination, Fr. Charlie spent 14 months at a parish in Port Huron then was transferred to the chaplain position at St. Mary Student Chapel in Ann Arbor. The year was 1968, a period of tumult on Michigan's campus, and Fr. Charlie was energized by what he was witnessing. "The students at U of M were asking such wonderful questions, struggling with what life was all about."

One of those questioning students was Dennis Glasgow. "I was very involved in the charismatic renewal movement at the time," he recalls. "I used to talk to Charlie about my beliefs, and he was so good at listening to what I had to say yet urging me to be faithful to the Gospel."

As a regular churchgoer, Fr. Dennis was also able to observe Fr. Charlie as a presider who maintained a prayerful, intimate relationship with God. "I remember being struck by how smart Charlie was, yet so in touch with his heart. On several occasions, I saw him cry during the liturgy, he was that moved. He truly was an inspiration in my decision to embrace the priesthood."

Fr. Dennis continued to meet with his 'counselor' throughout his priestly preparation, and even asked Fr. Charlie to participate in the vesting ceremony at his ordination. That ordination was one of about a dozen that Fr. Charlie influenced during his U of M tenure.

After 11 years in a student parish, Fr. Charlie felt a bit burned out and asked to be reassigned. The bishop responded with an invitation to found a new parish in Hamburg. "It was creative, engaging work," Fr. Charlie says. "We didn't even own the land (for a church) when I got involved."

Building a new parish wasn't the only thing Fr. Charlie accomplished in Hamburg. He inspired a number of parishioners to consider taking up the priestly vocation. "One candidate from our youth group made it all the way through," Fr. Charlie notes.

At his request, Fr. Charlie's next assignment brought him back to Ann Arbor. But the homecoming was bittersweet. "My mother's health was declining. She'd developed Alzheimer's disease while I was in Hamburg, and her symptoms were becoming more pronounced. I just wanted to be closer to her." Balancing his responsibilities as a dutiful son, Fr. Charlie also took on the 'management' of one of the largest parishes in the diocese - St. Francis of Assisi.

Everything was bigger at St. Francis: more families, more ministries, and a K-8 school to boot. But the larger community also brought Fr. Charlie in contact with more potential candidates for the priesthood. Fr. Dwight Ezop, current editor in chief of FAITH Magazine, was one of those candidates. "I was a college student at the time," notes Fr. Dwight, "and had my own car which gave me some flexibility in choosing a parish. When I 'tried out' St. Francis, I knew I'd come home."

Fr. Dwight felt such a connection to the parish he became an active volunteer, leading naturally to a meeting with the pastor. From the younger man's perspective, the experience was life altering. "I was just starting down the path of discernment," Fr. Dwight said, "and Charlie was the perfect person to talk to - compassionate and approachable. He shared with me his life story, and encouraged me to tell him mine. I soon began to call him my 'spiritual father.'"

The conversations between the two men continued for several months, until an opportunity came Fr. Dwight's way to pursue parish work out of state. "Charlie encouraged me to take the job, but told me, 'if this leads you to the priesthood, come back and study for us.'"

Fr. Dwight ended up doing just that - at Mundelein Seminary. Between semesters, he returned not to his hometown of Saginaw but to Ann Arbor. "Whenever I had a break, Charlie invited me back to St. Francis to see what the daily life of a priest was really like."

In a fitting conclusion to his studies, Fr. Dwight was ordained a deacon, along with three other men, at St. Francis of Assisi Parish, "with Charlie playing the role of the 'proud papa.' He was also the concelebrant at my first Mass."

When asked the most important lesson he learned from Fr. Charlie, Fr. Dwight replied, "He let me see the human side of what it means to be a priest. If I could be president of his fan club, I would."

Fr. Dwight was among five young men inspired to pursue the priesthood during Fr. Charlie's tenure at St. Francis of Assisi Parish.

By 1997, Fr. Charlie was ready for a change, and headed west to assume the pastorate of St. Mary Catholic Church in the "warm, welcoming community" of Manchester. There he was met by a smaller body of believers, giving him time to take on a new responsibility at the diocesan level - founding editor of FAITH Magazine.

Editing a publication like FAITH can seem like preaching to a parish of 80,000-plus. But somehow Fr. Charlie found a way to bring it down to a personal level, relating to readers on a one-to- one basis. The openness and approachability so often cited by his admiring 'recruits' to the priesthood were evident in every editorial he wrote. And he never lost sight of his pastoral duty to invite everyone - men and women - into the fullness of God's redeeming grace. " ... it's not too late for us to search together for the One whose beauty will bring us into His truth, goodness and love."

Editor's Note: In June 2001, Fr. Charlie stepped down from the top spot at FAITH and, this past June, retired from full-time pastoral work. He has moved back to Ann Arbor, where he helps out on the weekends at St. Mary Student Parish. He clearly relishes this return to the church of his childhood. "I came here as a boy in 1946, said my first Mass here, served as chaplain here, and buried my father from here. It is my spiritual home."

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