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June 2004
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Cover Story
It's the dawn of a new day, metaphorically speaking, for Dawn Smith. Dawn has found hope and healing from participating in Project Rachel, a ministry for those suffering from an abortion experience.
A new Dawn
By Cate Preston

Feature
"To see those kids who have had a lifetime of troubles, abuse and neglect now become hapy and part of a family can't help but affect you. Every time you see these kids, you see the face of God."
How kids with a lifetime of trouble become happy
By Bob Horning

Feature
Agnes was all alone in the world. She was dying and was found on he floor. Mother Teresa House took her in. She was no longer alone. Someone cared - about her life and her death.
The Anteroom of heaven: Mother Teresa House

By Fr. Charles Irvin

Culture
Fill the drawers with items a pregnant mother without means might need
Dresser full of love
By Patricia Majher
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a new Dawn
By Cate Preston | Photography by James Luning

It’s the dawn of a new day, metaphorically speaking, for Eagle resident Dawn Smith. A parishioner of St. Mary Parish,Westphalia, and abortion victim, Dawn has found hope and healing from participating in Project Rachel, a ministry for those suffering from an abortion experience.

Dawn explains that as a part of her personal recovery process, she feels called to share her experience. “Sharing my story is the next step I need to take to know that I am forgiven and loved. I have to share my story. God is calling me to. I can’t keep my light under a rock.” Receiving counseling through Project Rachel, having a supportive network of friends and knowing she is not alone are some of the reasons Dawn is able now to share her story. “I know there are other Catholic women out there. And I don’t think I’m the only Catholic homeschooling mom to be in this situation.”

Fourteen years ago, when she was single and facing an unplanned pregnancy, Dawn made the decision to have an abortion. “I was engaged to be married when I met Ed. We both worked at prisons in Jackson, and that was a common bond. We would watch the Pistons and Arsenio Hall. He listened to me, and we had a good time together.”

Still engaged to be married, Dawn found herself spending an increasing amount of time with Ed. “We ended up sleeping together, and I got pregnant. ... We weren’t serious as a couple. I didn’t know what to do.”

Caught in a situation that demanded action, Dawn found herself frozen with indecision. “I had already called off the wedding once before. I did ask my mother, ‘What if we postponed the wedding a second time?’ She said ‘No way.’ I went to the doctor and he suggested an abortion.”

Unable to think of alternative options, and afraid to disappoint her parents, Dawn decided to have the abortion.
“I had always thought of myself as pro life, but when it came down to it, I didn’t feel there was another option. I felt compelled to go through with it. Looking back, I know if I had gone to my mom and dad, Mom would have ranted and raved, but would have done what she needed to. I know now I could have done it. I could have had the baby.”

Dawn decided to go through with the wedding and get married, but says, “It was doomed, right from the start.” Within two years, with a new baby daughter, Dawn separated from her first husband. Remembering Ed, she contacted him and they reunited.

After the divorce was finalized, Dawn married Ed. Years later, Dawn’s journey of healing led her to seek an annulment of her previous marriage, and her marriage to Ed was witnessed in the Church. Dawn and Ed have now been married eleven years, and have seven kids together.

Project Rachel came into Dawn’s life just as she was discerning the decision to become a midwife. “I’m a doula, a labor support person, and am studying to be a midwife. I got an e-mail about offering training for counselors for post-abortive women, and was interested because prior births or abortions can affect a current labor.”

Dawn contacted Wilson Perkowski, the director of Project Rachel in Lansing. “I talked to Wilson, and told her about my experience. She suggested that I might be interested in participating myself. I’ve been meeting with Wilson for almost a year now. We met weekly at first but now we meet about once a month for a half an hour to 45 minutes. When we first started, it was much more guided. She’d give me an assignment, usually three questions to think about. We’d meditate on a Bible verse to become centered. I’d tell her the progress I had made, or would unload.”

Motivated to help other women have positive birth experiences, Dawn also felt compelled to delve into her past. “It had been so many years since my abortion. I no longer would wake up in the middle of the night and deal with the guilt. That’s not how it was with me.” Even so, participating in Project Rachel proved to be a great gift toward healing. Dawn struggled with feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. Through counseling, Dawn found that many of these emotions were triggered by her abortion experience. “Project Rachel was a great help. When people were emotionally abusive towards me, I thought, ‘Why not? I deserve to be punished.’ I felt insecure, unworthy. I’m stronger now, self-confident.”

One of the liberating, life-affirming attributes of Project Rachel is the concept of rebirth.
When women dwell on their abortions, the program compares it to the death of Lazarus, a death with the promise of resurrection on earth. Dawn describes never having healed from her abortion, but putting it aside, repressing it. “There was a recurring theme in our discussions – this concept of birth and rebirth. It was the creation of a new Dawn, a new me.”

The “new life” Dawn has experienced applies to multiple levels of her life, both as a mother and as a professional. “Ed and I, we’ve always been open to life. We practice NFP, natural family planning. I’m much more vigilant about NFP now. My kids want us to have more children, but I feel I’m being called to study (to be a midwife).”

Internalizing the knowledge of God’s love was a source of new life for Dawn. “I knew God loved me and that I was forgiven, but I hadn’t internalized His love. Now, I know. It’s there. And, by virtue of His love, we need to love ourselves. Could He love me even though I made such bad choices? Does He love us no matter what? Yes. No matter what, He’ll love us.”

Dawn feels that the Catholic Church offers support though the most fundamental aspects of the faith – the sacraments.
She describes the sacraments as “multi-sensory,” appealing to the body and spirit. “So many women think, ‘Where does this leave me, as a Catholic woman?’ They think, ‘The Catholic Church doesn’t condone this.’ But, really, it’s so supportive. There is healing. There is forgiveness. There are the sacraments. It is truly a ‘hands on’ approach to faith. In daily life, the sacraments nourish us, feed us.”

Even in the years around her abortion experience, Dawn felt tied to her Catholic roots. Although she was lukewarm about practicing her faith, Dawn knew in her heart that she had made a poor decision and sought forgiveness through the sacrament of reconciliation. “I knew I had to go to confession. I knew what I had done was wrong. After my daughter was baptized, I started going to church again, but even then it was hit or miss.”

It wasn’t until she began researching the option of homeschooling for her daughter that Dawn felt the Holy Spirit at work.
“(My daughter) was almost four when I had a conversion experience. I realized I was responsible for her soul, and had better get serious. I was reading Homeward Bound, a book about homeschooling, and there was a chapter about parents being responsible for their children’s souls. At the time, it really struck me. I’ve re-read that particular chapter since, and think now that there wasn’t anything particularly powerful about it. It was a good book, but it was obviously the Holy Spirit working.”

The “new Dawn” was surprising both to Dawn and her husband. “I changed so dramatically. It was hard for Ed. The new me wasn’t who he married. I began going to daily Mass and saying the rosary. There was a dramatic shift (in our) marriage.

“Ed’s not Catholic, (but) he is supportive and prays with us. I pray for Ed’s conversion. I see it happening, but it will happen in God’s time, not mine. Being married to a non-Catholic strengthens my faith. God sends us trials to make us stronger.”

In spite of a strong, faithful marriage, Dawn describes the lasting effects of the abortion.
“It has always been there, whether it’s verbalized or not. I apologized to Ed when I got to the point where I could see that the abortion had hurt him, too. I had never acknowledged his grief and his loss.”

Dawn and Ed have decided to homeschool their children, so as to educate them with faith and morality in mind. In fact, homeschooling was something Dawn insisted upon prior to their marriage, inspired by her parents’ choice to homeschool her two younger brothers. “I told Ed he had to agree before I married him,” Dawn says. “I want the kids to be Catholic. I don’t want their peers to dictate their morality.”

Through Project Rachel, Dawn has found the strength to use her experience to educate her children about the importance of respecting the body and remaining chaste. “My oldest children know (about my abortion). They were surprised. We always pray to stop abortion. In a way, knowing I had an abortion helps them. They know they should stay pure and chaste, and save themselves for marriage. They know because I lived it. It’s been a source of grace and growth (in my relationship) with my kids.”

Dawn wonders if the abortion has influenced her desire to help other women have good birthing experiences. “I’ve thought about being a midwife for a long time, for about five years. My son Ned’s birth was healing in so many ways, because it was a home birth. It was the greatest thing in the world, giving birth at home. Having a baby is a magic time – so powerful. Most women go into labor in the night. I’d envision Mary in the stable, with the stars overhead. I’d see the same stars, walking from the parking lot into the hospital. When a mother goes to the hospital, you go away and come back with a baby. At home, it’s seamless. There is no ‘blip’ in time. I want to give that to other women.”

Thankful for the opportunity to bring new life into the world, Dawn is especially thankful for the gift of her newest client. “I have two clients. One is 18, and unmarried. She’s giving her baby up for adoption. God sent me that one.”

This spring the Smith family will celebrate their unborn daughter with a naming ceremony.
“I think of her as Jessica; Ed picked out the name. She would have been 14. Sometimes I’ll hear the kids say to each other, ‘We have another sister or a brother.’ I tell them, ‘We’ve never met her, but we’ll see her in heaven.’”


Project Rachel is an international ministry offering spiritual support for women and men suffering from an abortion experience. Named from a Scripture passage taken from Jeremiah 31:15-17, Project Rachel is an organization that supports those who mourn the loss of a child through abortion, and offers hope and healing for the future.

Founded by Vicky Thorn, in the Archdiocese of Milwaukee, the program is designed to provide support and spiritual guidance for those confronting emotions triggered by abortion. Project Rachel allows men and women to grieve the loss of a child in a safe, healing environment.

In the Diocese of Lansing, healing retreats, support groups, counseling and mentoring are some of the many services available through Project Rachel. Participants may choose to talk to a priest or counselor, or meet with a support group. The healing process is enhanced through participation in the sacrament of reconciliation, memorial services and spiritual exercises. This program is open to men and women from all denominations and faiths.

For information about the program or to find a group near you, log onto the Project Rachel Web site at abortionhealing.com or call Wilson Perkowski toll free at (800) 968-0968. Volunteer opportunities are available.

Then your light shall break forth like the dawn, and your wound shall quickly be healed. (Isaiah 58:8)


St. Louis Center:
an extraordinary place
for extraordinary people

By Bob Horning | Photography by Christine Jones

The St. Louis Center (SLC), located five miles west of Chelsea, looks from the outside to be a typical institution for the mentally impaired. For those associated with it, however, it is much more.

Lisa Roberts, 41, a resident since April 2002, calls St. Louis Center “a very good place to live and have fun.” She is one of 60 residents who are there to learn to live more independently. Many will eventually return to their families or to the community.

The center director, Fr. Joe Rinaldo, SC, states that their goal is to “witness the love of the Church to the poor. ... We try to build up a family around them and give them a hope for the future.”

Part of the preparation toward independent living is cooking, doing laundry and instruction about personal hygiene. The residents also learn how to interact with the community at large through field trips like going to movies, Detroit Tiger games, U of M football practice or bowling on Friday nights. “My bowling average is 70, 80, 90, sometimes 100,” Lisa says. “I’m really good.”

Former assistant administrator, Fr. Matt Weber, was recently assigned to the Philippines by his order, the Servants of Charity, which runs SLC and similar centers in 27 countries throughout the world. Fr. Weber says that “society tends to look upon those with a handicap as not being able to contribute. Instead, we should be asking, ‘What can they contribute?’”

Lisa, for example, is in the group of educable mentally impaired, and works at Taco Bell in Chelsea 15-20 hours per week. She is in charge of the lobby, sweeping and cleaning tables, and often greets customers as they enter.

At the center, residents can also learn useful skills during classes such as arts and crafts. A staff worker taught Lisa how to crochet, and she became proficient enough to make a scarf for her father. “Crocheting is something that I would have never thought of doing with Lisa,” says her stepmother, Judith Greenbaum. “I am impressed with the staff.” Judith’s daughter Susie is also at the SLC and requires constant supervision. Susie, and others who are in the severe or trainable mentally impaired groups, will never reach Lisa’s functioning ability, and may be life-long residents at St. Louis Center.

Judith considers it a plus that Lisa and Susie are immersed in a religious, spiritual atmosphere, even if it differs from her Jewish background. Lisa attends Mass on Sunday and Tuesday with the other residents, and has religion class once a week. When Lisa is asked what she has learned about Jesus, and what she thinks of Him, she says without hesitation, “He died on the cross to take away my sins. He loves me.”

Saint Louis Center is located on 180 acres of land, which includes a pond and woods. Priests, a staff of 55, volunteers and parents care for the residents. “Our approach is to look upon them not as handicapped, but as persons with a handicap,” Fr. Weber says. “They have special gifts as well as special needs. They have likes, dislikes, personalities, just like us.”

The result of this approach is changed lives. Steve Daut, who for the past four years has been the development director and in charge of public relations at SLC, tells of a 16-year-old boy found abandoned and fending for himself in Detroit. After two and a half years at SLC, because he was treated as an individual, his ability to trust grew, and he was able to leave and live on his own.

“Another was a 15-year-old who came to us recently,” Daut says. “When we noticed that he didn’t have a coat, we gave him one. He broke down crying. It turns out that nobody had ever given him anything before.”

In one sense, Daut could say that his life has also changed since coming to the St. Louis Center. Having developed a successful business, he was at a point in life where he wanted to give back to the community, to do work that was vital and important. On those days when he questions himself on his decision to leave his business, he says he just gets up from his desk and goes to be with the ‘kids.’

“I feel fortunate to have found this place,” he says. “To see those kids who have had a lifetime of troubles, abuse and neglect now become happy and part of a family, can’t help but affect you. They have a simplicity and purity rarely seen – their special gift to the world that Fr. Matt speaks of. Every time you see these kids, you see the face of God.”

While the residents receive the help they need at St. Louis Center, so do their parents, many of whom have nowhere else to turn. Fr. Weber terms it “being a partner with the family. We try to support the caregiver when life is fragile.”

John and Jan Chattaway of Livonia are a case in point. They have three children. One, Jordan, developed Lowe Syndrome, a rare but severe behavioral problem. Violent outbreaks resulted in 20 pairs of broken glasses over the years, among other things.

“Sending our son to St. Louis Center was a heart-breaking decision,” the Chattaways say, “but we weren’t surviving with him at home. He was destroying our house physically, and our life. We were hopeless. Different programs and medications we tried weren’t helping. Now, with Jordan at the center, it allows us to be parents to our other two sons as well. The structure at the center has helped Jordan to do more for himself, and they can take him out safely into the community more than we were able to. As a result of his progress, he can accompany us to a movie now, and he pretty much sits through it.” Notably, he has only broken one pair of glasses since being at SLC, and that by accident.

Though the Chattaways and other parents send their children to St. Louis Center, continual parental involvement is part of the program, Daut says. “The kids go home every other weekend and during holidays and vacations. The parents also do volunteer work here, as do many outside groups.”

Daut is familiar with the number of tragedies in society, and his wish is that they were able to accommodate them all by bringing the kids to SLC. Or, that at the center itself, he could snap his fingers and say about different situations, “problem solved.” “That’s the toughest part of the job,” he says.

“But the good part is being able to give the kids here a rich experience they wouldn’t get elsewhere. Like Stanley, who was an angry young man when he came. We stuck with him, and now he is upbeat, positive, a delight.”


the anteroom
of heaven –

Mother Teresa House
By Fr. Charles Irvin | Photography by Tom Gennara

Two women from Mother Teresa House arrived at Agnes’ home to find she had fallen. She had tried to get up by herself to get her medicine, but her legs would no longer hold her up. She was badly bruised from the fall, but still painfully conscious. She spent most of the night lying there on the cold floor, unable to move.

Even with her cancer advancing, confining her to bed for 20 hours of the day, Agnes was alone. She had no family. Her neighborhood had become a rough part of the city, and the neighbors she had known for years had either moved or died. For some time, Agnes had stayed awake at night because she was afraid of dying. She lived with the fear of being found dead in the morning by her great niece.

Agnes’ present sufferings had followed a troubled life of many personal losses. She had lost seven children in miscarriages and her only surviving son died at age 14. Her husband had quit coming home on time at night and eventually left her. She had to fend for herself all her life, and now ...

The volunteer workers gathered Agnes’ belongings and brought her to Mother Teresa House, on North Walnut Street in downtown Lansing. They placed her photos, her antique clock and her slippers in her room, and began to surround her with kindness. Agnes mentioned that she craved something tart, so the volunteers made some lime Jell-O for her. When they brought it to her, Agnes broke down and cried, saying, “You shouldn’t listen to me.” Those were, of course, code words that really meant, “Please listen to me.” Agnes desperately needed to talk to someone, and the people at Mother Teresa House were there to listen.

The very first night at Mother Teresa House, Agnes slept peacefully for the first time in months. Other changes followed. She was provided excellent physical care. There was someone there to get her a drink, help her wash up and answer the phone, so Agnes no longer had to worry about these things. Her medications began to work, and her pain diminished.

Something profound was changing in her soul. God’s grace began to work in lime Jell-O! The caregivers were hovering over her, and Our Lady of Sorrows was at work, bringing her Son to this forlorn child of God, this woman in need of healing and rest within.

Before she died, Agnes had become a more peaceful person. She had finally arrived at the point where she could allow others to love her here in this “anteroom of heaven.” It seemed that her spirit was healed. Having experienced love, Agnes could then let herself go into the hands of the One who is Love. Agnes’ great niece, her only living relative, also experienced relief, knowing her aunt was being cared for. Because her aunt’s immediate needs were attended, she was able to visit peacefully, and she came to understand and reconcile some of her family history.

Simply being in the room was a great comfort to Agnes, who at times would call out to see if anyone was there. The volunteer caregivers at Mother Teresa House would spend hours at Agnes’ bedside, conversing softly or silently praying. On some occasions when Agnes was awake, they prayed the Lord’s Prayer aloud for her, and she would join in praying the words.

People facing terminal illness have often told Karen Bussey, director of Mother Teresa House, that they wanted to take their own lives. Again and again, Karen witnesses that this train of thought evaporates when their basic needs are addressed – when they get pain medicine on time, when they see that their tired family member has someone there to help, when they don’t have to worry about paying for care they can’t afford.

It is the little actions done by “little” people that lift the “burden” of dying.
Getting Agnes a drink of water, sitting with her, remembering her medicine and helping her sit up – these are things that most anyone could do. It matters very much to simply “be there” for one another and to do the little things. At Mother Teresa House, the residents appreciate simple comforts such as the smell of cookies or a pot of soup and the time taken for stories and songs. They value the visits from grandchildren and friends, and for those with no family, the caring companionship of the men and women who serve there. Rosaries recited, a hand’s gentle touch, the balance of company and solitude – all of these help in heaven’s anteroom.

Everyone who comes to stay at Mother Teresa House needs care, but not all need healing. Some come with open hearts, and can continue loving and sacrificing to the end, while preparing to meet God with serenity. Other residents, who have lived with hardened hearts, can now allow others to give them love.

The residents are not the only ones who are transformed at Mother Teresa House. The volunteers often remark that they are personally changed by being with the dying. We all need to grow, and the dying teach us many things about living.


The Miracle of
Mother Teresa House

My husband Rhett Johnston was diagnosed with brain cancer in October 2002. He died in October 2003. I am not sure how I managed to survive that year. There is no way to describe watching your partner, best friend and husband die – his mind and body deteriorating each month; praying for a miracle while trying to be strong and brave for your loved one. By September, Rhett was in hospice care at home, and on Oct. 15, 2003, he entered Mother Teresa House.

I heard about Mother Teresa House from a relative and through the Sparrow Home Hospice Care. I met its director and within a few days was told there was an opening. The night before Rhett went to Mother Teresa House was the worst night of my life. I knew my husband was leaving our family home and never coming back. I didn’t know if I was doing the right thing. I was upset that the miracle we prayed for had not happened.

I accompanied Rhett on the morning of Oct. 15 to Mother Teresa House.
It’s hard to put into words the feelings that overwhelmed me as I walked through the house to Rhett’s room. There was such a feeling of peace – a weight being lifted from my shoulders – like exhaling after holding your breath. I truly felt the hand of God, or maybe it was Mother Teresa. I wasn’t alone, and Rhett would have a peaceful death.

During the next 12 days, our children and I were able to just be with Rhett, hold his hand, talk to him, love him. The incredible volunteers at Mother Teresa House were always there to see to his needs. He was kept so clean, comfortable and at peace. If I needed to talk, a shoulder to cry on, someone to pray with – there was a volunteer ready to help.

I didn’t get the miracle I had prayed for, but God gave me Mother Teresa House. I truly believe it was God’s gift to me and Rhett at the end of his wonderfully full and Christian life. Mother Teresa House was the miracle at the end of Rhett’s life. I shall be forever grateful for and enriched by my experiences there. – Bernice Johnston

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Mother Teresa House is a home for the dying, founded by Karen Bussey in September 1997, at the time of Mother Teresa’s death. In reverence for life and for the end of life, the caregivers of Mother Teresa House surround a terminally ill person with loving, personal care around the clock. It is a home for hospice patients, caring for 25 patients in 2003 alone. People of any social, religious or financial background are gladly welcomed, with priority given to those in the greatest need. The men and women who serve there give Christ’s love to the dying in the same manner as did Mother Teresa of Calcutta. The care is provided at no charge.

Mother Teresa House receives no governmental or insurance funds, depending solely upon generous donations from individuals, churches, service groups and businesses. Although it is not funded or operated by the Diocese of Lansing, the diocese was instrumental in making Mother Teresa House possible.

Regular donations on a quarterly or monthly basis especially help to sustain their work. If you would like to be a supporting Friend of Mother Teresa House, contact Mother Teresa House, P.O. Box 13004, Lansing, MI 48901.

Those interested in learning more about the volunteer opportunities at Mother Teresa House should call Erma Stafford, coordinator of service at (517) 484-5494 or e-mail motherteresahouse@juno.com.


Dresser Ministry
Fill the drawers with items
a pregnant woman without means might need
By Patricia Majher | Photography by Philip Shippert

In Nancy Kujawa’s opinion, a pregnant woman without means shouldn’t have to go without. That’s why her organization, Pregnancy Services of Greater Lansing (PSGL), spearheads a special program with area churches that reaches out to expectant mothers in need.

“We call it a ‘dresser ministry,’” she explains. “The idea behind it is to find a new dresser – or fix up an old one – and fill it with items that a new baby needs.” Clothing tops the list (see box for suggestions), but you can also fill the drawers with things like blankets, diapers, pacifiers and the like.

“We’ve worked with several Catholic churches in the Lansing area,” she notes, “including St. Martha’s (Okemos), St. Thomas Aquinas (East Lansing) and St. Mary’s (Williamston). And each one works the program differently. One church might list the required items on individual pieces of paper for people to pick up, much like a Christmas giving tree is run. Another might bring a dresser into church, and encourage people to fill the drawers as they are able.

“Some parishes also include high-ticket items that have been gently used – like car seats, strollers and cribs. We can always pass these on.”

After a successful dresser campaign is finished, the full dresser and related items are then brought to PSGL’s offices at 1045 E. Grand River in East Lansing, where the staff makes sure they are distributed to young mothers to-be who really need them.

If you know of an expectant mom who could benefit from this program, have them call PSGL at (517) 332-0633 or visit their Web site at www.pregnancylansing.com.

If the mother-to-be is outside the service area of this organization, Kujawa suggests you develop a dresser ministry of your own, or encourage your parish to start one.

First, you need to get a dresser.
New is good, but a used one will work well, too. If you opt for used, make sure the drawers open and close smoothly and that the pulls and feet are firmly attached. If there’s any damage to the surface of the dresser, think about refinishing it or applying a coat of paint. If you don’t know the gender of the baby, neutral colors like white, green, peach, purple and yellow are best.

Want to get a little more creative? You can also experiment with decorative painting techniques like sponging, or try stenciling on a design. Check your local craft store for baby-oriented motifs.

Top off the decorated dresser with a small lamp and a basketful of plush toys or a starter library of read-aloud books. A children’s picture Bible would make another nice touch.


Fill the drawers
with love


Nancy Kujawa, director of Pregnancy Services of Greater Lansing, recommends you gather the following items to fill a dresser for an expectant mother in need:

Onesies
Sleepers
Blanket sleepers
Receiving blankets
Crib blankets and sheets
Outfits for newborns, 3-6 months
Socks and shoes
Pacifiers
Baby wipes, baby shampoo, baby powder
Diapers
Diaper bag
Baby food and cereal
Formula
Plastic baby bottles
Parenting books and videos
Bibles

In addition to the dresser, you might also want to solicit gently used high ticket items, such as:

Car seats
Cribs
Playpens
Bassinets
High chairs
Walkers
Strollers

 

Inspiration from
Blessed Mother Teresa:
Defender of the Unborn


Mother Teresa (1910-1997) was a staunch defender of the rights of the unborn, who opened her heart and her homes to the unwanted children of Calcutta. In her efforts to inspire compassion for the littlest among us, she spoke these words:

Love is a fruit in season at all times, and in reach of every hand.
Intense loves does not measure; it just gives.
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
We cannot all do great things, but we can do small things with great love.
Every act of love is a work of peace, no matter how small.
Good works are links that form a chain of love.
We have been created to love and be loved.


 

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