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June 2006
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cover story
Sister Monica directs the Michigan Catholic Conference, the voice of the church in the halls of government. Learn more about how the MCC works and what effect the church can have on public policy in our state and in our nation.
a voice crying in the wilderness

By Nancy Schertzing

my story
Mary Tardif is a spiritual director ­ a fellow traveler on the spiritual path to God. Read about Mary's gentle gift of drawing people into the spirit.
the map reader
By Marybeth Hicks

profile
Meet three activists who sould clarion calls for all of us to follow ­ peace, respect and a reverence for life. Find out how their response to God's presence makes the world a better place for others.
social justice: conservative? liberal? or just what Jesus would do?
By Bob Horning

anniversaries
Priests of our diocese who are celebrating 25th and 50th anniversaries of ordination
anniversaries
By Marybeth Hicks
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An interview with the author of Decoding DaVinci: The Facts Behind the Fiction of the DaVinci Code.
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interview by Elizabeth Solsburg

a voice crying in the winderness
Sister Monica speaks out for a public policy of justice
By Nancy Schertzing | Photography by Jim Luning

“One day as the crowds were gathering Jesus went up on the hillside and taught them there.

‘You are the world’s seasoning to make it tolerable. If you lose your flavor, what will happen to the world? And you yourselves will be thrown out and trampled underfoot as worthless.

‘You are the world’s light – a city on a hill glowing in the night for all to see. Don’t hide your light! Let it shine for all; let your good deeds glow for all to see so that they will praise your heavenly Father.’”(Matt 5: 1; 13-16)


Sister Monica Kostielney, RSM lives Jesus’ invitation and challenge every day.

“As a baptized Christian, I am called to respect the dignity of each human person. As a Sister of Mercy, I am called to alleviate sickness, poverty and lack of education. Both callings come together very well in my work.”

As president and chief executive officer of the Michigan Catholic Conference (MCC), Sister Monica directs the Michigan Catholic Church’s official voice in public policy matters. She gives voice to the bishops of Michigan in expressing their specific remedies for issues of concern in public policy. As the spiritual leaders of their dioceses, the bishops speak for Michigan’s 2.5 million Catholics. Sister Monica moves in the highest levels of state government and has a reputation as a real Lansing power-broker. This would have amazed the young nun who came to the Michigan Catholic Conference in 1972.

I was 35, teaching in Grand Rapids, and my order said I should go on to something new – probably another degree beyond my master’s in English. That summer I attended a meeting about a ballot proposal to legalize abortion in Michigan. I remember a priest involved in the opposition movement saying that if he saved even one life, he knew it would be worth it.

“When he said that, I experienced a moment of clarity as if Jesus had walked up and called me by name. I had never felt that before and never have since. I knew I was called to get involved, too. So I headed to Lansing and worked all summer on the campaign to defeat the proposal. When fall came, my superiors were calling for me to return to school, but the campaign leaders needed me to stay. My school got a substitute to teach my classes. By November, they hired her permanently when I joined the MCC staff.”

Both Sister Monica and the Michigan Catholic Conference have changed significantly in the 34 years since she arrived. In addition to lobbying, for example, Sister Monica also oversees the benefits program for all Catholic lay employees and clergy in the state. Those benefits include medical, dental, disability and auto insurance – as well as workers’ compensation and special events insurance. Sister Monica and her dedicated MCC team also administer the statewide Lay Employees Retirement Program and a similar program for retired clergy.

The Michigan Catholic Conference operates from its magnificent new offices just blocks from the Michigan State Capitol building in downtown Lansing.
Like a city on a hill, the MCC headquarters shine with state-of-the-art communications and meeting accommodations, graced by magnificent artwork celebrating faith.

Here in this building, Sister Monica shares some of her thoughts about her work in shaping public policy.

“While we as a country adhere to a separation of church and state, you cannot separate religion from politics. We work with the legislature and courts to help society recognize there are people with issues that demand attention – homelessness, poverty, racism and misuse of the earth’s resources.

“There are many hopeful signs and much good being done in parishes and society. But we have such a need to recognize that spiritual, not material, values bring happiness. We need to put forth examples for our children to help them value what is really important.

“The most critical issue looming on the horizon is the stem cell issue. Sometimes, people advocate embryonic stem-cell research by saying, ‘Look, they’re [the embryos] going to go down the drain. I’m going to be pro-life – I’m going to save them!’ This represents a new paradigm for policy that we cannot accept – the end justifies the means. It’s very Machiavellian. Society has changed dramatically – there’s a real shift in thinking that we can call cultural relativism. That’s a very dangerous philosophy.

“We have to get across the message that we support stem-cell research, but we do not and cannot and will never support embryonic stem-cell research. That is a critical distinction.”

Sometimes, Sister Monica and the MCC are put in the position of supporting an issue, but not the means to its accomplishment.
Examples include putting the increase in the minimum wage, funding for public education and health-care costs into the state constitution. Although the MCC strongly encourages legislators to act positively on these issues, they cannot support putting them in the constitution, because they are not constitutional matters.

“When I work with legislators and other people of power, I remember to deal with issues, and to respect people’s human dignity and their positions. It’s always important to keep the lines of communication open. You don’t want to burn any bridges – that’s the model set by Pope John Paul II – dialogue. We forge solid relationships to bring issues before the public – but on a given issue, our alliances may be with groups who disagree with us on other issues. We cross party lines because we address issues that no other organization in the state is able to address –we are the only organization that has an agenda covering the beginning of life to its end.”

Sister Monica has had several successes: the defeat of Proposal B, which would have allowed physician-assisted suicide; the durable power of attorney law; the prohibition of surrogate parenting in Michigan.

She has also had one overriding disappointment:
“Educational justice for parents and children. I’m not just talking about vouchers. I’m talking about engaging in a civil dialogue with the citizenry about education. People are very entrenched.”

As a woman who wields enormous influence, how has Sister Monica dealt with women’s issues? She says with a laugh, “Cardinal Szoka said to me, ‘You know, I never hear you talk about the women’s issue.’ And I said, ‘Cardinal, why be equal when you’ve always been better?’ Nobody’s ever mentioned it since. If there is an issue, it’s not a gender bias – it’s that I don’t play golf. I miss out on those relationships.”

At 40, the Michigan Catholic Conference is one of the oldest and most highly respected Catholic Conferences in the U.S. “We have an excited and committed staff who labor daily to carry out the mission of justice with integrity and excellence. We are a light in the darkness to ensure that the poor, unborn and other vulnerable members of our society have a voice in public policy.

“My hope is that we are doing God’s will and helping build the kingdom of God along the way.”

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The Michigan Catholic Conference

The Michigan Catholic Conference was the brainchild of Cardinal John Deardon, the archbishop of Detroit. In the early 1960s, he envisioned a unified Catholic voice to bring the church’s economic and social justice message to all branches of the government.

After consultation with Michigan’s diocesan bishops, including Bishop Babcock of Grand Rapids, Bishop Albers of Lansing, Bishop Woznicki of Saginaw and Bishop Noa of Marquette, Cardinal Deardon’s insight led to the creation in 1963 of the Michigan Catholic Conference – the public policy voice of the Catholic Church in Michigan.


the map reader
Mary Tardif helps others find the road to God
By Marybeth Hicks | Photography by Tom Gennara

As a spiritual director, Mary Tardif’s faith is richer for her personal commitment to sharing her spiritual journey with others. It’s easy to understand why anyone would want Mary as a spiritual director – her easy laugh and open heart offer a warm and welcoming atmosphere in which to open up about issues of spirituality. A member of St. Michael’s Parish in Grand Ledge, Mary worked for 17 years as director of lay ecclesial ministry for the Diocese of Lansing. She now works in the Sustaining Pastoral Excellence Program at St. Francis Retreat Center and is a spiritual director.

FAITH sat down with Mary to learn more about her role as a “map reader” in the spiritual lives of those she directs.

A spiritual director is a person to share your faith journey.
It’s someone who helps you reflect on how God is working in your life and helps you to discern his purpose for your life. I like to say spiritual direction helps find “God sightings” in your daily experiences – those experiences that some people think are coincidence and others know are “God-incidence.”

Anyone who is seeking God can benefit from spiritual direction. I find women are very eager for someone to help them focus on spirituality. We’re so busy and pulled in all directions, and some women feel they can’t take the time for spirituality. But those who do often discover they can be comfortable doing less and being more available to God. For men, midlife is a time when spiritual direction can be very powerful.

We know that life is profound. It’s filled with sacred moments that need to be captured and savored. The Spirit is working mightily in our lives, and God calls us to operate from a different platform. Those in spiritual direction learn to view themselves differently – from a “God perspective” – and in doing this, God changes their view of the world.

I tell people that spiritual direction is a gift you give yourself.
It’s the opportunity to grow in faith and become more centered, more able to weather the storms in life because you know you have an anchor. My own spiritual director is wonderful.

St. Therese said something I often think of regarding God’s call to us, when we’re discerning whether it’s really God who’s calling us. She said we often are “doing the good we’re not called to do.” We have to be careful because our lifestyle of overextending and seeking perfectionism in ourselves is actually a kind of violence against ourselves. God never calls us to violence; he calls us to life. So anything that isn’t life-giving probably isn’t from God.

Often, the yearning for spiritual direction is identified on a retreat.
For some, meeting with a spiritual director while on a retreat weekend is a new experience, and they discover it’s something they want to explore. Sometimes, a personal crisis or a major decision will cause people to look for direction in faith – perhaps the death of a loved one or a life change such as divorce or job loss. Those events sometimes make the need for spiritual direction more obvious, though anyone can benefit if it’s a deeper faith they’re seeking.

First, you have to choose a spiritual director with whom you feel comfortable.
You might meet two or three directors to gauge how your personalities mesh – this is important because it’s a very personal friendship. The conversations between you and your director are completely confidential, so you need never worry that your thoughts or feelings or your personal circumstances will be revealed to anyone. And spiritual directors must always work with a supervisor, so that if you present an issue that concerns your director, he or she can get input from someone more experienced – while never compromising your privacy, of course.

There’s an important difference between spiritual direction and counseling or therapy –
spiritual direction is not for mental health, it’s for spiritual health. A spiritual director isn’t there to solve a problem or offer advice. Instead, we meet people at a particular crossroad or juncture in life who are seeking a deeper faith and a more vibrant experience of God in daily living. Generally, I find people focus too much on their own faults and flaws – we’re all too aware of our weaknesses. God wants us to build on our strengths, and that’s the focus I try to have in spiritual direction.

It’s an incredible gift to me to be able to share the spiritual journey of others.
It’s humbling, and my own faith is enhanced because there is always mutual sharing with those I direct. It’s not a one-sided relationship. Being a spiritual director has enhanced my prayer life immensely.

And they keep coming back!
Those who are serious about their spiritual lives grow in faith, and that’s evident over time. It’s very gratifying to feel I’ve been helpful by listening and leading conversations that help discern God’s purpose for the people I work with.

A good spiritual director is someone whose gifts from God include empathy, an openness to others, a sensitivity to God’s presence around them.
It used to be that spiritual directors were “the holy people” that you knew – but this is a ministry that is open to anyone who has a heart for the Holy Spirit.

Each year, the St. Francis Retreat Center has 12 openings to begin the two-year spiritual direction training program.
Our grant funds an ecumenical program, which means we welcome Catholics and Christians of other faiths who want to become spiritual directors. Christian faiths may differ on matters of doctrine, but spirituality is an area where we all can work together and enhance the faith life of one another.


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St. Francis Retreat Center’s lay pastoral education program for spiritual directors was begun in 1992 by Sister Suzanne Eichhorn, OP. The two-year training for lay ministers and clergy is an ecumenical ministry open to Christians of all traditions. For information on finding a spiritual director or if you think you might be called to this ministry, call St. Francis Retreat Center at 517.669.8321 or e-mail Mary Tardif at mtardif@stfrancis.ws.

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St. Francis Retreat
Center is 50!


On June 25, Bishop Carl Mengeling will lead the golden jubilee celebration for St. Francis Retreat Center in DeWitt. Mass will be celebrated at 1 p.m., followed by a buffet lunch and an open house.

The diocesan retreat center was originally owned by the Franciscans and was called Portiuncula in the Pines. After the Diocese of Lansing acquired the center, Father Larry Delaney was assigned as its director.

In addition to weekend retreats, the center offers internships in spiritual direction; specialized retreats for various groups, including Retrouvaille and Alcoholics Anonymous; the Sustaining Pastoral Excellence Program and conference facilities.

Five years ago, Bethany House, a retreat center for teens, was built on the grounds.

For more information, visit www.stfrancis.ws.



social justice: conservative? liberal? or just what Jesus would do?
meet Father Fred Thelen, Judy Zabik and Father Pete Dougherty
By Bob Horning | Photography by Christine Jones

Father Fred Thelen
Immigration


About 95 percent of Lansing’s Cristo Rey Catholic Church parishioners are Hispanic, many of them immigrants. Their pastor of 13 years, Father Fred Thelen, recognizes the need of immigration law reform.


The Catholic bishops of Mexico and the United States issued a document called Strangers No Longer: Together on the Journey of Hope. They want legislation passed that will respect the dignity of immigrants and that will allow families to be reunited across borders. This document, and more information about the issue, is at www.justiceforimmigrants.org, the Web site for the U.S. bishops’ campaign.

There are millions of undocumented immigrants in the U.S. who came with the hope of providing for their families, since they couldn’t in their homeland.
Many are abused at work, or not given full pay. If they complain about it, they fear being reported and deported. The bishops want to see legislation that is not punitive to immigrants or employers, but that is a compassionate and comprehensive reform of current law.

Jesus tells us in Matthew 25 that we should welcome and help the stranger and the poor, and, as we do, that we will encounter Jesus himself.
Our rich Catholic social teaching advocating this is too little-known and too often superseded by our fears, racism and prejudice.

Many who come to our parish faced poverty at home, obstacles in coming to the States, then oppression and prejudice once they get here.
They have been through a lot of pain. Their plight calls me to reach out with the compassion of Christ.

We welcome immigrants at Cristo Rey. Their papers aren’t checked at the door.
They trust us because we care. Through informal networks, we often help them get jobs and get connected with social agencies that can help them. We also foster an environment where they can feel at home and continue their native customs and culture.

Hispanics have much to offer spiritually to America, a country of immigrants.
Their deep Catholic faith is part of who they are. Prayer is a natural part of their life. Family ties are a priority. It is the work of the Spirit that they are bringing new life and renewal into the U.S. church.

Judy Zabik
Livingston County
Lifespan


Judy Zabik is the director of Lifespan for Livingston County, and treasurer of the state organization. One of nine children, she says she inherited her mother’s passion for pro-life issues.

Abortion is the greatest social injustice today.
We actually kill babies in this day and age. The deliberate taking of an innocent life is the greatest child abuse imaginable.

At Lifespan (which covers most of southeast Michigan), our main focus is on educational, legislative and public awareness programs.
Our belief is that as the lies about issues such as abortion, euthanasia and embryonic stem cell research are uncovered, that hearts and minds and legislation will change.

Let me give you a personal example of that.
A reporter from Channel 66 in Flint came to my home to interview me about the Live Birth Definition Act. I asked her if she knew what partial-birth abortion was. She had no idea. I was able to explain it to her, and by the time she left, she had decided to do a TV series positively portraying people involved in pro-life. And she did.

Throughout the year, we have a number of activities to fit any desired level of involvement.
In the area of education, we provide speakers to churches and organizations on topics such as chastity, euthanasia, abortion and embryonic stem-cell research; we offer a seminar entitled Making Abortion Unthinkable; we sponsor student essay and art contests on life issues; we staff booths at state, county and local fairs; we publish a newsletter eight times a year, and a resource book with educational information as well as a list of pro-life legislators and business people in the greater Detroit area.

Three of our programs – a baby shower, dresser ministry and Wee Care – are for collecting baby items and furniture, and distributing them to our local crisis pregnancy centers and to needy mothers.
Also, in May is our Mother’s Day dinner, featuring the Mother of the Year award; in December we sell Christmas cards to raise funds; and in January there is a rally for youth for those who can’t attend the March for Life in Washington, D.C.

Father Pete Dougherty
Michigan Peace Team


In 1993, Father Peter Dougherty, along with a handful of others, started Michigan Peace Team. Now they work throughout the U.S. and internationally to attempt to defuse violent situations.

Our vision is to pursue peace through active nonviolence in places of conflict.
You might say we act as a shield between the two sides. To that end, we have trained and placed peace teams in places such as Iraq, Bosnia, at Michigan State University during the riots in 1998, in the West Bank in Palestine, along the U.S.-Mexican border and at Ku Klux Klan demonstrations in Ann Arbor. We only go when invited by someone in the conflict area. Our aim is to prevent violence so that dialogue and transformation can take place.

The impetus for my mission is Jesus’ call to nonviolence, and the example of his nonviolent love.
We try to always remember that both sides are our brothers and sisters. God doesn’t give us swords and nuclear arms to fight with, but the power of his Holy Spirit to love.

Nonetheless, we aren’t passive.
We actively confront violence. It takes guts. Just as Jesus had to confront evil in Jerusalem, we need to combat it in Washington, D.C. or wherever we see it. Justice and peace are not options. But, again like Jesus, there is no place for hatred, judgment or arrogance in combating violence. We want to get free of that personally so that we are more able to act with love and forgiveness.

I became involved with nonviolence when I was pastor at Holy Trinity Chapel at Eastern Michigan University from 1970-75, where lots of students opposed the Vietnam War.
As I began to understand the system of violence working in our world, it became clear to me that the war was evil, and that we are called to active nonviolence in transforming any violence.

The MPT conducts training to provide knowledge and skill for the work.
We also attempt to educate the public through presentations to groups and churches. The world has seen the results of peaceful revolution in recent years in the Philippines, Russia, the Ukraine, and Georgia, for example.

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The U.S. Catholic Bishops have identified seven principles of Catholic social teaching:


1. life and dignity of the human person

2. call to family, community and participation

3.
rights and responsibilities

4.
options for the poor and vulnerable

5. the dignity of work and the rights of the worker

6. solidarity

7.
care for God’s creation

The bishops’ document, Sharing Catholic Social Teaching, states “The Catholic Church proclaims that human life is sacred and that the dignity of the human person is the foundation of a moral vision for society.” Without this principle, the other six have no meaning – that’s why it is the foundation for a moral vision of society.


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Want to find out how you can help promote social justice?

visit www.dioceseoflansing.org and click on the “Catholic Charities” link.

Contact:
Cristo Rey Parish, www.cristoreylansing.catholicweb.com, 517.394.8090
Michigan Peace Team, www.michiganpeaceteam.org, 517.484.3178
Lifespan, www.rtl-lifespan.org, 810.220.LIFE


Happy Anniversary
Priests of our diocese who are celebrating
25th and 50th anniversaries of ordination

Marybeth Hicks

Father Louis Komorowski,
Ordained June 9, 1956


Priestly journey: A native of Temperance, Michigan, Father Louis has devoted 50 years in the service of the church as an Oblate of St. Francis de Sales. After receiving a degree in biology from Catholic University in 1957, he joined the faculty of St. Francis de Sales High School in Toledo, where he taught until 1971. Throughout his priestly career, Father Louis maintained a close relationship with the parish of St. Mary of Good Counsel in Adrian, an association that began in 1958. Father Louis lives at the parish and continues to serve the families there.

Times change: “The biggest change in the past 50 years is the way the people want and need priests,” Father Louis says. “Earlier, there was more of a sacramental approach – we were there to bring the sacraments to the people. But today people see me as a member of the community. We are more in touch with the people.”

Summing up with Scripture:
Father Louis says he can just hear Jesus saying the words from Matthew 11:28-30: “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for your selves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.”

Father Stan Czarnota
Ordained December 22, 1956


Priestly journey: A native of Poland, Father Stan was ordained at the age of 22 in Lublin in 1956. For nearly 20 years, he stayed in Poland, teaching full-time and also working as an assistant pastor and pastor in several parishes. “At that time, all priests were educators and we taught in the government schools,” he explains, “but when Communism took over, priests were no longer permitted to teach.” Immigrating to the United States in 1975, Father Stan first came to the Flint area at the invitation of a parish priest. In 1980, he became a U.S. citizen. To show his appreciation for his new country, he joined the U.S. Navy and served for eight years as a chaplain. From 1988 to 2003, Father Stan was chaplain for Sparrow Health System’s Dimondale Center nursing home.

Life as a priest:
“It is much more than I expected,” Father Stan says. “I never knew priests were so valuable to the people. Especially in the Navy and in the hospital, I was able to be with people who needed me. My door was always open. I never said ‘no.’”

Summing up with Scripture: When Father Stan first heard the words in Matthew 16:24-25, he decided to follow Jesus: Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”

Father Tom Nenneau
Ordained September 12, 1981


Priestly journey: “In high school, almost all of my teachers were priests or seminarians,” he says. “I respected them and thought it would be a good life.” Father Tom followed his yearning and moved to Lansing in 1969, entering the seminary through the Diocese of Lansing. After his ordination in 1981, he began a priestly career that has called him to seven parishes, including St. Mary in Mt. Morris, where he now serves as pastor, fulfilling his longtime wish. “As an associate pastor, my goal was to become pastor of a small, rural parish,” he says. Along with his service to the church, Father Tom has served in the U.S. Naval Reserve since 1984, reaching the rank of commander. He calls his Navy service “a significant part of my priestly career,” enabling him to work with people of all faiths and in a variety of circumstances.

Filling a need: Father Tom’s experiences as both a Navy chaplain and a parish priest have taught him that “people are people. As a priest, the expectations are not much different from place to place.”

Summing up with Scripture: Father Tom’s favorite Scripture, John 14:2-3, is a reminder of the personal nature of our relationship with Jesus: “In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If there were not, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and take you to myself, so that where I am you also may be.”

Father Mark Inglot
Ordained September 12, 1981


Priestly journey: Father Mark left his hometown of Flint at age 18 to attend Michigan State University. While a student at MSU, he joined St. John Student Parish, where he was encouraged to discern his priestly vocation. After graduating in 1977, Father Mark enrolled at St. John Major Seminary and the University of Detroit. He earned two graduate degrees and was ordained in 1981. “I decided to try the seminary for one year, but four years flew by before I knew it,” he recalls. His assignments in the Diocese of Lansing have included parishes in Brighton, Lansing and Ann Arbor (“The bishop sent me to St. Francis of Assisi as a Spartan missionary.”) before landing back where his vocation began: MSU and St. John Student Parish. He has served as pastor there for the past six years.

An unexpected life:
“I never knew what a wonderful life it would be as a priest,” Father Mark says. “I’ve never been bored or lonely. I’m with people at their most memorable and sacred moments. I can have a day that includes a baptism, a funeral and a wedding, sharing the whole spectrum of life.”

Summing up with Scripture: Father Mark’s priestly vocation is captured in the words of John 21:17: “He said to him the third time, ‘Simon, son of John, do you love me?’ Peter was distressed that he had said to him a third time, ‘Do you love me?’ and he said to him, ‘Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you.’ (Jesus) said to him, ‘Feed my sheep.’”

Father Gregg Pleiness
Ordained September 12, 1981


Priestly journey: Twenty-five years ago, Father Gregg made two lifelong commitments – one to the priesthood, and another to the Army National Guard. His life and vocation have been defined by those commitments ever since. “I’ve spent most of my priestly career in parishes along the US-23 corridor,” Father Gregg says. His assignments have included parishes in Brooklyn and Jackson, and he is now the pastor of St. Augustine Parish in Howell, the “best kept secret” in Livingston County, where he has been since 1999. “I have every intention of dying here in 50 or 60 years,” Father Gregg says wryly. He still is active in the Guard, as well.

Getting attached: Father Gregg says he wouldn’t change anything about his priestly journey, especially his propensity to get attached to the people he serves. While some might hold back their emotions to avoid the pain of leaving a parish community, Father Gregg decided long ago to embrace the heartache of moving from place to place. “I asked God to never let the hurt go away, because I want to love people enough to feel sorry when it’s time to move on.”

Summing up with scripture: Father Greg calls John 17 “Jesus’ last will and testament – it’s what he wants from us.” John 17: 20-21: “I pray not only for them, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, so that they may all be one, as you, Father, are in me and I in you, that they also may be in us, that the world may believe that you sent me.”

Father John Aduba
Ordained October 31, 1981


Priestly journey: Father John became a priest in his hometown of Ubulu-Okiti, Nigeria and worked as a pastor in several parishes before coming to the United States to attend Franciscan University in Steubenville, Ohio. After earning graduate degrees in theology and counseling, Father John came to the Diocese of Lansing and was assigned the chaplaincy for Flint area hospitals. His duties also grew to include pastoral work in several parishes, in addition to his role in multiple health-care institutions. Currently, he is chaplain in Jackson for two hospitals and eight nursing homes, as well as a regular assistant at Queen of the Miraculous Medal Parish.

Every life is sacred:
Father John’s vocation has called him to experience the moment of death with countless people, a time of intimacy he is grateful to share with families. “The experience of death is the same for every human person,” he says. “As a chaplain, God challenges me to think about my own mortality and my own life by sharing the sacred life of the people I serve.” His work is “exhausting, challenging, humbling,” he says. “But every life is unique and everyone has a story to tell.”

Summing up with Scripture:
“God always protects me in the midst of the unknown,” Father John says. He’s glad he answered the call. Isaiah 6:8: “Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send? Who will go for us?’ ‘Here I am,’ I said; ‘send me!’”