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October 2007
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cover story
Immaculée spent 91 days in a bathroom, hiding with seven other women as a genocide raged outside. Her family was killed, but immaculée survived ­ and she found God during her ordeal. Read more about her amazing story here.
Finding God in hell

By Nancy Schertzing

FAITH in depth
How adult stem cell treatment is healing Jeni's spinal injury. Read Jeni's story and an interview with Dr. Jean Peduzzi-Nelson, an expert in the field.
I will walk again
By Marybeth Hicks

FAITH interview
Tom Grace has written a Catholic thriller. This novel is based on real events surrounding the church in China. The Secret Cardinal is an exciting and informative read.
The Secret Cardinal
By Elizabeth Solsburg
culture
A tisket, a tasket ­ a spiritual lift in a gift basket
gift basket
By Michelle Sessions DiFranco
exclusive
"Mom, something happened, and it's really bad." This is never how you want your 9-year-old to begin a conversation, especially if her eyes are pooled with tears and her voice is shaking with panic.
The baby bird incident
By Marybeth Hicks

Finding God in hell
Immaculée Ilibagiza’s faith during the Rwandan holocaust

By Nancy Schertzing | Photography by Jim Luning

Immaculée Ilibagiza endured unimaginable horrors as a Tutsi in the Rwandan genocide of 1994. The ethnic hatred and butchery claimed most of her beloved family and profoundly changed the direction of her young life.

For 91 days, she hid from the slaughter with seven other Tutsi women in the local pastor’s bathroom – a space so small they survived only by sitting in complete silence on each others’ laps. Outside their window, Hutu neighbors laughed as they followed their government’s direction to hunt Tutsis with machetes and other government-issued weapons.

In her book, Left To Tell: Discovering God Amidst the Rwandan Holocaust, Immaculée describes the extraordinary brutality and the voices that assailed her ears and mind during her ordeal. She tells of voices that imparted a truth so profound it empowered her to forgive the butchers and dedicate her life to sharing that message with the world.

“I could hear the killers on the other side of the wall, at least 300 or 400 of them shouting and jeering. They sounded drunk and their chanting was more vicious than usual, ‘Kill the Tutsis big and small … kill them one and kill them all. Kill them!’

“I entreated, ‘God, make them go away … save us from …’

‘Don’t call on God, Immaculée,’ [a] voice broke in, ‘He knows you’re a liar every time you pray to him and tell him you love him. How can you love God, but hate so many of his creations?’ Beneath the raucous singing, the dark voice taunted me, ‘It’s no use. Don’t call on God. God doesn’t save liars.’

“I began to pray for the killers, but then stopped.
I desperately wanted God’s protection, but I believed in my heart they deserved to die. I couldn’t pretend they hadn’t slaughtered and raped thousands of people – I couldn’t ignore the awful, evil things they had done to so many innocent souls. I asked God, ‘Let me pray for their victims instead. Let me pray for justice. God, I will ask you to punish those wicked men, but I cannot forgive them – I just can’t.’

“Finally I heard the killers leaving, walking away down the road, their singing fading in the distance.

“One night I heard screaming not far from the house, and then a baby crying. The killers must have slain the mother and left the baby to die in the road. The child wailed all night; by morning its cries were feeble and sporadic, and by nightfall it was silent. I heard dogs snarling nearby and shivered as I thought about how the baby’s life had ended. I prayed for God to receive the child’s innocent soul, and then asked him, ‘How can I forgive people who would do such a thing to an infant?’

“I heard his answer as clearly as if we’d been sitting in the same room chatting: ‘You are all my children, and the baby is with me now.’

“It was such a simple sentence, but it was the answer to the prayers I’d been lost in for days. I held my father’s rosary and asked God to help me [as I meditated on Jesus’ words on the cross.] Again I heard his voice: ‘Forgive them; they know not what they do.’

“I took a crucial step toward forgiving my killers that day. My anger was draining from me. I’d opened my heart to God and he’d touched it with his infinite love. For the first time, I pitied the killers. I asked God to forgive their sins and turn their souls toward his beautiful light.

“That night I prayed with a clear conscience and a clean heart. For the first time since I entered the bathroom, I slept in peace.”

Growing up in a devout Catholic family, Immaculée followed all the Catholic traditions – from attending Sunday Mass to fasting and praying before the crucifix. But she did these largely because her parents made her. As the genocide raged, Immaculée fully embraced her faith, retreating inward to pray and meditate as she and her fellow refugees hid in the bathroom, living on scraps from the pastor’s table and waiting for the insanity to end.

While her body was shriveling from lack of food and exercise, Immaculée’s faith sustained her and nourished her soul. Through meditation, praying the rosary and contemplative prayer, she writes, “I gave myself completely over to God. When I wasn’t praying I felt I was no longer living in his light and the world of the bathroom was too bleak to endure.”

The prayers and meditation also kept the dark voice Immaculée calls the devil at bay. Over a decade later, a thriving Immaculée considers the voice that menaced her during her ordeal. She explains, “I don’t remember hearing the devil before the genocide. If I did, I didn’t pay attention, or thought it was just my mind until I heard his intense suggestions. Now I am aware so much of his voice always calling for the wrong thing, contrary to God’s will. Unfortunately, sometimes we listen to him.

“I think the killers heard the same voices – even the voice of God, but they chose to listen to the government and the devil.
I was only lucky to listen to God’s voice because I was in a situation where I needed him so badly. Most often, we tell ourselves we need him only when we are in trouble. But the Hutus were the free tribe, out of trouble at that time. They didn’t need God much and fell for the false promising and lying of the devil’s voice. I have heard killers who say that they think they were possessed, who regret bitterly what they did. I think they know they listened to the wrong voices.

“God’s voice was always loving, soft and tolerant like a father or mother. God’s voice was calling me to make good decisions in the present moment, leading me into the future and helping me to know the past is forgiven.”

In 2006, Hay House published Left To Tell: Discovering God Amidst the Rwandan Holocaust, Immaculée’s memoir of her ordeal. She ends her account of the genocide and aftermath by describing the dramatic moment when she lived God’s message most poignantly by seeking out her family’s killer at the prison near her hometown.

“I watched as a disheveled, limping old man crossed the prison yard. I jumped as they approached, recognizing the man instantly as Felicien, a successful Hutu businessman whose children I’d played with in primary school. He’d been tall, handsome and had impeccable manners. I shivered, remembering it had been his voice I’d heard calling out my name when the killers searched for me at the pastor’s house. Felicien had hunted me.

“Pushed into the office, Felicien stumbled onto his knees. When he looked up from the floor and saw that I was the one waiting for him, the color drained from his face. His dirty clothes hung from his emaciated frame in tatters. His skin was sallow, bruised and broken, and his eyes were filmed and crusted. His bare feet were covered in open, running sores.

“I wept at the sight of his suffering.

“[The jailer] yelled at Felicien, ‘He looted your parents’ home and robbed your family’s plantation, Immaculée. After he killed your mother and brother, he kept looking for you – he wanted you dead so he could take over your property. Didn’t you, pig? What do you have to say to her? What do you have to say to Immaculée?’

“Felicien was sobbing. I could feel his shame. He looked up at me for only a moment, but our eyes met. I reached out, touched his hand lightly and said what I had come to say. ‘I forgive you.’


“My heart eased immediately, and I saw the tension release in Felicien’s shoulders before his jailer pushed him out the door and into the courtyard. Two soldiers yanked Felicien up by his armpits and dragged him back toward his cell.”

Looking back on that moment, Immaculée explains. “When I met Felicien, I wanted him to know what was in my heart at that moment. I felt the forgiveness and wanted to give it to him, though I was embarrassed that by forgiving this killer his jailer may have thought I was crazy or that I didn’t really love my family. Still, I wanted to free his heart from the excuse that I hated him, so he could think of how to grow from there. I wanted him to be better, to regret what he had done and to realize God’s love for everyone.

“I hope that my experience can help others to forgive and to experience the peace that comes from that. I want them to always have hope and to know God is close to each heart.

“No matter what happens in our lives we can be happy and trusting if we practice true, holy love in each second. Forgiveness, not only in our hearts but in the world, is our only chance. And it is possible if we listen to God’s voice in our lives.”

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Brother against brother
the Rwandan genocide

There is a long history between the Hutu and Tutsi people of Rwanda. Although they have spent long periods living in relative peace, they have also had intense conflicts. Political power in Rwanda has shifted between the two groups, sometimes aided by colonial occupiers. In 1994, an airplane carrying Rwandan President Juvénal Habyarimana and Burundi’s president, Cyprien Ntaryamira, was shot down as it prepared to land in Kigali. Both presidents, who were Hutu, were killed in the crash. Although responsibility for the crash is disputed, Hutu extremists blamed the Tutsi and moderate Hutus. They began a 100-day genocide in which they killed more than 800,000 of their fellow Rwandans.


The Michigan Catholic Conference, the bishops’ voice on public policy matters, is launching a statewide education program on the issue of stem-cell research. Some important points the bishops want to convey include:

• The church supports adult stem -cell research and encourages the faithful to do likewise.
• There are two different types of stem-cell research, adult and embryonic.
• Adult stem-cell research is ethical and proven – as it is providing treatments and even cures for more than 70 different medical conditions – and that embryonic research is unproven and immoral as it kills the living human embryo.


I will walk again
How adult stem-cell treatment
is healing Jeni’s spinal injury

By Marybeth Hicks | Photography by Philip Shippert

Most people probably would pray the Serenity Prayer and accept that a complete spinal cord injury means only one thing: paralysis for life.

But Jeni Rummelt is different. Rather than pray for the serenity to accept a lifetime in a wheelchair, she prays for the courage to find the miracle she is certain God is offering her.

Jeni is changing what she can’t accept, just like the prayer says.

Six years ago, Jeni Rummelt was a newlywed who, along with her husband Trent, owned and operated Solid Impact Fitness Center in Caledonia. A lifelong athlete and fitness devotee, Jeni’s career as a physical trainer suited her active lifestyle.

Jeni and Trent enjoyed only seven months of their new life as husband and wife, and only two months as entrepreneurs, when, on a trip with Trent’s family, they were involved in a tragic auto accident. Trent’s brother was killed; Trent and his parents were critically injured and faced months of recovery; and Jeni suffered a catastrophic spinal cord injury.

At only 26, the once-active, athletic young wife learned she was paralyzed from the waist down and would have to rely on a wheelchair – permanently. “The doctor told me there was nothing they could do and I would never walk again,” she recalls. “But even then I knew that wasn’t the final answer for me.”

Though she is still using a wheelchair, the years since the accident have been nothing short of miraculous for Jeni and Trent. In 2003 she gave birth to a son, Alex, and two years later had a second baby, a daughter aptly named Hope.

For most people, giving birth to two healthy children and avoiding any adverse health affects in the process might suffice in the “miracle” department. But Jeni’s tenacious spirit has not let her give up the fight to restore her mobility.

It’s this spirit that has led her to Russia, where Jeni participates in adult stem-cell therapy designed to regenerate the damaged T-12 vertebrate that disables her.

“People are unaware of the success researchers are having with adult stem cells. My therapy is completely safe for me because I’m being injected with my own stem cells that come from my own blood. There’s no chance of rejection and I don’t have to take any drugs to keep the tissues growing healthily in my body.”

The therapy entails two injections of mature stem cells – cells that have been allowed to divide and multiply – into Jeni’s spinal cord every two months. In time, these cells have the potential to become new nerve tissue in her spinal column, replacing the tissue that was damaged in the accident.

Since the use of adult stem cells to regenerate spinal tissue is not yet approved for use in the United States, Jeni must travel to Russia to receive treatment. “I’d love to do this therapy here in the U.S. and it will definitely be available in the future when the Food and Drug Administration approves it,” Jeni says. “But I got so many signs that God was pointing me in this direction, it seems he didn’t want me to wait.”

At the time she heard about the Russian adult stem-cell treatment program, Jeni was evaluating other therapy options but kept meeting roadblocks along the way. “The weird thing was when I decided to do the stem-cell treatments, everything just fell into place. I had no passport, no money and no way to get to Russia, yet I had to be there within three weeks of deciding I would go. Only God could have made it possible for me to be in Russia three weeks later – and I was.”

Jeni’s fifth trip to Russia for treatment took place as FAITH went to press. Is it working? “I knew going in that my type of injury would need at least a year before I saw some results. I’m now beginning to feel sensations I hadn’t felt before and I’m able to contract and release the muscles in my legs. So yes, it’s starting to work, and I’m certain I will get up and walk one of these days.”

In the meantime, Jeni believes God is using her to inspire others to believe in and look for miracles. For example, the parish community of St. Mary’s in Lowell sponsored a fundraiser to support her medical travel expenses, and others routinely offer prayers and encouragement. She believes God is answering those prayers by giving her the optimism and positive attitude she needs to face each new day.

“I’m playing the hand I was dealt,” Jeni says, “but part of that will be to prove to people that you shouldn’t give up, no matter what.”

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The politics and science of adult stem cell research

Dr. Jean Peduzzi-Nelson is clinical professor of medicine and researcher at Wayne State University Medical School. Her area of focus is adult stem cells for the regeneration of spinal cord and brain tissue. FAITH asked her to share her insight into the political and scientific issues of this volatile subject:

FAITH: What is the truth about the potential for adult stem cells to cure injuries and disease as opposed to embryonic stem cells?

In the U.S., because of the media, people are under the impression that embryonic stem cells have the most potential to provide cures. But in the scientific community, we know that adult stem cells inherently have advantages that make them safer and more effective. In fact, when I read the science I can’t understand how the idea of embryonic stem cells has gotten so big. For example, since adult stem cells come from the body of the person who receives them, there’s no risk of rejection and the chances of complications are minimized. There’s also no limit to the number of cells available to a person who is treated with stem cells that come from his own body. Also, we know that embryonic stem cells can over-mature – they grow too much and can cause tumors. And finally, with embryonic cells, you don’t know about any potential disease the cells might carry. So the truth is that adult stem cells present a safe, plentiful and promising source of regenerative tissue.

As far as how these cells work in the body, there is no difference between the process used for embryonic or adult stem cells. You take stem cells from the body, “grow them up” to be mature so that they multiply, and then you inject the growing bundle of cells into the body so that they can become whatever type of tissue is needed for healing or to battle disease.

FAITH: Are adult stem cells being used yet in the U.S.?

Yes, the FDA has approved adult stem cells as treatment for certain kinds of cancer and other specific diseases. There are now some 70 uses for adult stem cells in the U.S. Unlike some countries, our government is very careful not to approve a form of treatment until there is solid science to prove that the treatment is safe and effective. So even if adult stem cell treatments are being used in other parts of the world, the U.S. may not introduce them until later.

FAITH: Given the relative safety and promise of adult stem cells, why is there so much focus on embryonic stem cells?

There is a great deal of competition in the scientific community for funding, so in many respects this has to do with what sort of money can be found for certain kinds of research. Right now, again because of the media attention, there is a large amount of funding for embryonic stem cell research and not as much for adult stem cells. This also has to do with the potential for profit down the road. There’s not as much potential for profit with adult stem cells because they are plentiful in the patient’s own body. (But of course, in my mind, this is another reason why it’s a preferable source of stem cells). These are the two main reasons why stem cell research is such a political issue.

FAITH: What are the moral implications of embryonic stem cell research?

The moral implications are huge. Consider a few issues: some people have suggested that frozen, unused embryos from fertility clinics could be used for research and to treat people if cures were discovered, but this notion is a myth. Embryonic stem cells would need to be in their earliest stages to be useful. Frozen embryos would not offer useful stem cells. Also, from a legal perspective, this is a moral dilemma because some states already accord the status of personhood to frozen embryos – requiring them to be adopted or fought over in custody battles. So that wouldn’t offer a solution.

In order to have enough cells, you would need to mass produce embryos and then destroy them for the sole purpose of harvesting stem cells. The means we would have to accept the notion of creating life for the purpose of destroying it. Most people believe this is an immoral idea.

FAITH: Is there scientific promise in cord blood from umbilical cords?

Quite a bit. I encourage anyone having a child to donate the cord blood to be kept for future use. This blood would be similar to adult stem cells in that it would pose no risk of rejection to the recipient who saved it for himself.

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Statistics

65 percent of Michigan residents would vote no on a proposal to eliminate Michigan’s ban on the cloning of human embryos.

59 percent of Michigan residents oppose stem cell research that clones human embryos so the stem cells can be removed

70 percent of Michigan residents oppose stem-cell research that kills the human embryo so the stem cells can be removed

73 percent of Michigan residents agree with the statement, “While I think we need to find cures for horrible diseases, I worry about the future if the cloning of human embryos is allowed”

60 percent of Michigan residents do not trust our elected officials, politicians and government leaders to make sure the cloning of embryos for stem-cell research is not abused and is properly controlled.”

85 percent of Michigan residents support stem-cell research that uses adult stem cells or stem cells from umbilical cords?”

 

Here are some diseases being successfully treated by adult stem cells:

1. Brain Cancer
2. Retinoblastoma
3. Ovarian Cancer
4. Skin Cancer: Merkel Cell Carcinoma
5. Testicular Cancer
6. Tumors abdominal organs Lymphoma
7. Non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma
8. Hodgkin’s Lymphoma
9. Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia
10. Acute Myelogenous Leukemia
11. Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia
12. Juvenile Myelomonocytic Leukemia
13. Chronic Myelomonocytic Leukemia
14. Cancer of the lymph nodes: Angioimmunoblastic Lymphadenopathy
15. Multiple Myeloma
16. Myelodysplasia
17. Breast Cancer
18. Neuroblastoma
19. Renal Cell Carcinoma
20. Various Solid Tumors
21. Soft Tissue Sarcoma
22. Ewing’s Sarcoma
23. Waldenstrom’s macroglobulinemia
24. Hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis
25. POEMS syndrome
26. Myelofibrosis
27. Diabetes Type I (Juvenile)
28. Systemic Lupus
29. Sjogren’s Syndrome
30. Myasthenia
31. Autoimmune Cytopenia
32. Scleromyxedema
33. Scleroderma
34. Crohn’s Disease

35. Behcet’s Disease
36. Rheumatoid Arthritis
37. Juvenile Arthritis
38. Multiple Sclerosis
39. Polychondritis
40. Systemic Vasculitis
41. Alopecia Universalis
42. Buerger’s Disease
43. Acute Heart Damage
44. Chronic Coronary Artery Disease
45. Corneal regeneration
46. Severe Combined Immunodeficiency Syndrome
47. X-linked Lymphoproliferative Syndrome
48. X-linked Hyper immunoglobulin M Syndrome
49. Parkinson’s Disease
50. Spinal Cord Injury
51. Stroke Damage
52. Sickle Cell Anemia
53. Sideroblastic Anemia
54. Aplastic Anemia
55. Red Cell Aplasia
56. Amegakaryocytic Thrombocytopenia
57. Thalassemia
58. Primary Amyloidosis
59. Diamond Blackfan Anemia
60. Fanconi’s Anemia
61. Chronic Epstein-Barr Infection
62. Limb Gangrene
63. Surface Wound Healing
64. Jawbone Replacement
65. Skull Bone Repair
66. Hurler’s Syndrome
67. Osteogenesis Imperfecta
68. Krabbe Leukodystrophy
69. Osteopetrosis
70. Cerebral X-Linked Adrenoleukodystrophy
71. Chronic Liver Failure
72. Liver Cirrhosis
73. End-Stage Bladder Disease

There are currently NO diseases being successfully treated by embryonic stem cells.

 


The Secret Cardinal
An interview with author Tom Grace

Tom Grace has written a suspenseful novel about the Catholic Church in China. Loosely based on some of the events in the life of Cardinal Zen Ze-kiun of Hong Kong, widely believed to have been Pope John Paul II’s last “secret cardinal,” Grace’s book reflects some of the harsh realities facing Chinese Catholics. Tom Grace is a parishioner at St. Joseph Parish, Dexter and has written several other novels, including the best-seller, Spyder Web. His “day job” is as an architect.

FAITH: Can you give us a brief plot synopsis, without giving too much away?

In a nutshell, this book is a thriller about a jail break. It’s wrapped up in the real, ongoing conflict between the Vatican and China.

What prompted you to write this book?

I was writing my Kilkenny thrillers and in March of 2000, Sen. Joe Lieberman gave a stirring tribute to Cardinal Kung of China. It just amazed me and opened me up to this whole story. In reading what this incredible man went through, I knew there was a story to tell, but it took me years to figure out and write. I wrote other books during this time, which are almost formulaic technology thrillers.

How much of this book is based on the life of Cardinal Kung Pin-Mei?

Little key pieces of Kung’s story were important and I gave them to my bishop character.

Chinese authorities wanted Cardinal Kung to be the prelate of the government-authorized church in China, much like Henry VIII was in England at the time of the Reformation. The Chinese gave Kung the message, “You are with us or in prison forever.” Kung was dragged out in front of a crowd to support the government’s position, but instead cried, “Long live Jesus Christ, long live the pope!” Kung was sentenced to solitary. They didn’t want him talking to anyone, so no hard labor. Eventually, Kung was exiled because he was dying. He had family here, so Sen. Lieberman got involved and Kung came to the United States. Then, he recovered and got the call from Rome, “Come see me.” At that point, Kung learned he was a cardinal. In the fall, he got the red hat. The Chinese were furious.

What would you like people to know about the oppression of Catholics in China?

I had never thought much about the practice of religion in China before. I had heard a lot about missionaries, but that was it. Western religion was tolerated, embraced or persecuted depending on who was on the throne. Sometimes an emperor converted and Christianity was tolerated. Eventually, the Communist government of China tried to wipe out religion and failed. Then they decided to take control of it and religion became part of the Chinese bureaucracy. They legalized five religions – Catholicism, Protestantism, Daoism, Buddhism and Islam. Prelates in these faiths are trained by the state, because loyalty to the state is more important than faith. The government can then control the message coming out of the pulpit. For example, the church in China supports abortion because that’s supported by the state. They are allowed one child per family.

Two of the “state” bishops of China recently passed away. Now, with the Olympics looming, the question for the Chinese government is whether they are going to replace these guys. Will they consult the Vatican or not? Last year, they placed bishops in place without consulting the Vatican and set up an ugly exchange between China and the Vatican.

During the Cultural Revolution, many people refused to give up their faith and practiced at great risk, as they still do today. They practice in fields, in hiding, as the early Christians did under Roman persecution. The current conflict began with Communism – atheism is the official religion. The Communists kicked out all foreigners, including the papal nuncio. They threw others in jail.

You’ve written several books – what number is this? How has your own faith played a role in your writing career?


This is my fifth. I like stories in which good triumphs over evil. The Bible is a great example. Evil may give it a run for the money – everybody loves that kind of story.

This was interesting to me because Cardinal Kung’s story is so fascinating. It is a story of faith and loyalty.

What’s next for you?


Another book with a faith theme, but not as religious as this one specifically. Bioethics and embryonic life will be a theme. I’m very interested in biomedical research, partly because I’ve designed research facilities. There are new and scary things coming up in that area, like the creation of life outside the womb.


A tisket, a tasket
a spiritual lift in a gift basket
Michelle Sessions DiFranco | Photography by Phillip Shippert

Not long ago, a friend of mine was sharing how down she was feeling. She was pondering a litany of new-age remedies for her slump. At the end of the talk, she suggested that we go and get a pedicure together to help get her mind off of her problems. I was up for the pampering, so I agreed to go. About $50 later, our feet were looking better than they had in months, and she seemed happier. For about an hour. I could tell the quick fix of the pedicure was wearing off and that those feelings of despair were returning to plague her soul. The reality is that no pedicure, aroma therapy, or any other holistic wellness plan was going to help her. I think she truly needed something much deeper, and although I knew darn well what it was, I didn’t bring him up. My friend was not a very religious person and I was a little hesitant about “going there.”

In the coming days, my lack of courage started to bother me.
Why is it so acceptable in our culture to turn to yoga, meditation CDs, or a self-proclaimed TV “expert” for healing and wellness, but yet sometimes awkward for us to suggest turning to God who is, after all, the source of all happiness? While pondering, I realized I needed to be a bit strategic and somehow ‘ease’ God into her situation. I needed to introduce the idea to her nonverbally. I had an idea.

Gift baskets have always been a great way to show kindness to someone, and I absolutely love creating them for family and friends for different occasions.
I knew my friend would love one – especially if it was stuffed with “wellness” items. But among the herbal tea, scented candles and hand lotion, this basket was going to make room for a little bit of God. It offered a mix of things to make a person feel better – topically and spiritually. I included items that are as faith-building as they are meditative and interesting.

Do you know of anyone who could use a spiritual lift?
Consider making them one of these baskets. And if it’s well received, it just may casually open the door to deeper discussions about real prayer and how it can help – far beyond Tai Chi, nature-sound CDs, and yes, even a $50 pedicure.

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For the project shown, you will need:

• 1 medium size basket
• basket filler
• prayer card
• Catholic book of prayers
• Gregorian Chant CD (or any relaxing Christian music)
• hand cream or any spa products of choice
• can of soup or chocolates (or any other comfort food items)
• box of herbal tea
• ceramic mug

Directions:

Line basket with filler and then arrange items in any fashion. For an added touch, wrap with clear cellophane and tie with a ribbon and gift card.

More ideas

For the chocolate lover, create a basket with different chocolate candies and cookies, hot cocoa mix, and a mug among the spiritual items.
For a spa theme, find a cotton-lined basket and fill with lotions, body wash, bath oils and a body sponge among the spiritual items.